ok i met this really cute girl in my sophmore year. we had biology together and we barely talked. honestly i wasnt really attracted to her. she was a NICE girl. i dont think that she even dated any guys at all. my junoir year past by with only seeing a few appreances of her. now im entering my senoir year at high school. im looking for a nice girl to settle down with and hopefully go to the same college as her. and i just saw her recently at a store and i remembered how nice she was. should i start talking to her and get with her if i get any classes with her? what should i do/say if i dont have any classes with her? im reeally attratced to her now. plus im not sure but i think im falling for her.
2006-08-28 12:50:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aaawww how sweet,well talk to her... and DO NOT GET SACARED!!!!!!!!! this could be a great oportunity to find a good person that is really for you.Dont Miss this chance. Just Talk to her like this "Hey how are you?? omg.. I wandered if you wanted to hang out with me for a while" If She is nice like you say. she will probably say yes then ask her questions about her life kinda like a truth or dare with only truth questions.Good Luck!!!
2006-08-28 13:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be a fool not to and you may regret not doing it. What harm can it do to say hi to an old friend and ask her out for a movie. Don't do dinner on the first date that can lead to uncomfortable silence, uncomfortable situations. A funny movie how ever will give the two of you time to bond, and frankly laughter goes a lot farther than an order of fries. She will remember what a good time she had laughing with you and you are a sure bet for a second date. Besides you can share popcorn, that's always a cool thing.
2006-08-28 12:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you think you'll be lonely or left out of dates in college & want a backup. OK, OK, maybe that's not how it is - but that's what it sounds like. You don't know the first thing about her, she could have children for all you know! Talk to her, get to know her, keep it light, sure, ask her out. Just say, Hi, I remember you from biology class, I'm Joe. How are you getting on? Any college plans?
Ask her if she likes movies, would she like to see one with you, as a date?
If it doesn't work out, so what, you will be that bit more confident asking someone else out, and not make such a huge drama out of it! And any girl who does like you will then know that you are interested in dating women, OK?
Maybe she will date you for a while. Maybe you'll meet others in college, maybe you'll join a lot of societies in first year & have a great time. Keep it light, give it time.
2006-08-28 13:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by WomanWhoReads 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her then go for it. If you think it is really meant to be then something will happen. I honestly think that you should be able to decide on this other than having a class with her. If you're compatible with her then that's definately a plus. Even if you don't end up with someone going to the same college where there is a will there is a way. I know people say long distance relationships don't last.... but if it's meant to be then you're made.
2006-08-28 12:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on School first then love ...You have your whole life to settle down ..
Your education is to important to try to complicatee with life long decisions...Besides its important to have your options open as you enter college...You never know who youll meet there.. good luck
I say this because I had a hs sweet heart and after about 8 years of being together we both grewup and wanted completely different things adn now I am soo happily married .. Im glad I waited
2006-08-28 12:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do first thing is you really need to talk to this girl to see if you have anything in common. Then ask her to the movies or something. Your young so if she is not the one there are plenty more out there, I have three boys ages 19, 15, and 13. My oldest always asks me advise and I tell him the same thing I told you. Good luck
2006-08-28 13:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be seeking a man's opinion, son. Don't get too caught up in one girl. Especially not at your age. I was there. I did that. Tore my heart out. I'm not kidding. Stunted my life. Do not let yourself get caught up with one chick. It'll tear you apart. It did me. Please listen. If she isn't going for you, and I mean NOW, then forget it. Do yourself a huge favor and move on. I carried on with her sister about how to get her to love me. I sent flowers. I did everything I thought was in my power. Now she has two half black children. Hmmm. Oh, you 're falling. Just like I did. Clear your head, which is VERY hard to do. But DO IT!.
2006-08-28 13:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to a really big school, and yet everybody knew everybody else, and there was always some reason to talk to each other. Maybe she will be at a dance (the kind everybody just shows up to, not a prom type)..... good luck.
2006-08-28 12:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by chante 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down. You can't be falling for someone that you hardly know. However, there's nothing wrong with starting a conversation with her the next time you see her. If you both enjoy talking to each other, ask her out on a date.
2006-08-28 12:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound liek a really cool guty don't ever be scared to tak to a girl all girls like confidence. Just walk up to her and ask her how she has been if you can slide Can I have your number adn ask her out some time to catch up on old times. Just go for it what have you got to loose.
WHATEVER YOU DO DON"T SOUND LIKE A PERVERT!! MAJOR TURN OFF!!
2006-08-28 12:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Heather B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋