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i hate my dad havn't talked to him in 3 years

2006-08-28 12:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0 1

I don't hate my dad, but I don't like him. I do call him by his first name simply because he has never been a father, dad (whatever you want to call it) to me. When he divorced my mother (when I was four) he also walked out on me and I literally saw him once every 5 years after that as he wasn't interested in making the effort. Even when he was around me as a baby he never held me. It was like I wasn't even his daughter although clearly I am. I went through a lot of things in my childhood that he will never know about because he abandoned me. He never provided any financial support and obtaining emotion from him is impossible. My father has never even told me he loves me. I've been hugged by him once in my life, it was two years ago on Christmas. I don't hate him. I am very disappointed with him though. He missed out on a lot.

2006-08-28 14:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Christina K. 2 · 0 0

WELL i for one dont mine died 12 week ago & i truely wish he was still here & we are a close family.
unless your dad has done something really unthinkabley bad, you should sit down & reason what hes done & why you think he did it, because its not until we get older ourselves do we realize what our parents are telling us, my dad use to say " i still feel about 19 in my mind but when i look in the mirror i know im not", & " one day your born the next day you die," because time passes by so fast, then you will be as old as your dad is now & it will hit you like a train, THEN you WILL know what he was trying to do,

2006-08-28 13:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0 0

If I hated my dad that much. I would not be talking to him to call him by his first name or any name. I have two sets of grandchildren that when referring to their bio father they call him the sperm donor. They do not mention him but once every five years if at all.

2006-08-28 12:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 0 0

Me Sorta. I don't hate my Dad I hate is actions or lack of. When I call his house...maybe twice a year..I have to ask for him by his first name cause his wife doesn't want him to have anything to do with me. I would like to have a relationship with him, but it'll never happen so I gave up hope. Hope things get better for you!

2006-08-28 12:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by jit83 1 · 1 0

I don't hate my dad but I was bitter with him for a long time after he, without any logical reason, did not attend my wedding. I didnt even speak to him or ask about him when I called my mother. I'm starting to get over it.

2006-08-28 12:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0 0

SHAME ON YOU ! The Bible says to honor your father and mother and your life will be long on this earth. What's the matter, Daddy didn't give in to your little temper fit and let you have your own way? You sound like some one who needs a good old fashion butt kicking and grounded for awhile untill you can learn how to act. I would definitly take this computer off you first thing then the phone and all your friends would have to stay away for awhile. Sounds like your getting influenced by the wrong friends.

2006-08-28 12:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by lcj43938 2 · 0 2

My dad isn't "Dad of the Year" nor, will he ever be, but I don't hate him because despite of what I've said and done to him, he still loves me. Plus, how can I hate the first man who loved me.

2006-08-28 12:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0 0

I doubt in case you'll ever be in a position to regulate the way your dad is..i'm also particular that your mom knows about his "female friend" yet for motives that are commonly used in ordinary words to her she lets him ruin out with it. She will be one in each of those fantastic women who trust contained in the marriage vows that say "for further constructive or worse, richer or poorer" etc. And does her brilliant to maintain her kinfolk mutually. My advice to you'd be to pay interest even as your mom needs to vent her frustration, grant your opinion even as she asks and provides her all the love and assist you could. At this element giving your dad slightly of your ideas would in ordinary words make issues worse on your mom and also you., not something will be solved... he will in ordinary words develop into extra abusive and bitter to all of you..he sounds like a deeply depressed and unhappy guy who takes it out on all and dissimilar round him. this will be because of his alcohol abuse,and the humiliation of having his ill spouse help the kinfolk. To make him sense extra manly he has a touch plaything on the facet or forgets his issues with booze and video games. (He would sense that a minimum of he could have administration over something in his existence through spending too a lot time with those video games). If he received't flow to conseling per chance you and your mom could flow and a minimum of get the help and help you want to get through this. I choose all the great..

2016-12-05 20:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by kimbell 3 · 0 0

I don't, but I did hit a point where I didn't want anything to do with him, but I got over it, and I realize why he acted the way he did. I've never had serious problems with my dad because he never did anything, and neither did I.
I love my dad.

2006-08-28 13:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

not me, and i never will, no matter what my parents do i will always love them and you should love yours to. I never call them by their first name always mom or dad, and i have so much respect for them. you wouldn't be here if it wasn't for them. I feel bad for the people who think they hate their parents. The only reason to dislike them is if they did something entirely wrong like that spitbull girls dad.

2006-08-28 12:59:33 · answer #11 · answered by monkey. 3 · 0 0

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