Why is he been so mean? Last time when I ask him why he didn’t answer my call, he said that makes u mad and I told him yes, so he knows that makes me mad. Guys what should I say if he calls me, I want to answer my phone because if I don’t answer it he might not call me, I feel like I am desperate. Should I get mad, or should I just say what is ur problem like I need help step by step. The crazy thinK is that he talks about us spending our lives together for ever and how much he loves me, IF HE LOVES ME HE WOULD NEVER DO THIS. ANYWAY PLEASE GUYS HELP ME
2006-08-28 12:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you that desperate that you have to wait for some guy to call you, move on with your life.
2006-08-28 12:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does things *just* to piss you off? Perhaps he feels you're overbearing, and is trying to send you a message? I don't answer my phone half the time, and no one ever got mad at me because of that; if they did, I would tell them to take a hike. When you're desperate, it shows, and people take advantage of you. This isn't the *last* guy you will meet, there are more fish in the sea. Stop being desperate, and start having fun. If you act like you could have just as much fun without him as you do with him, he'll be more interested in keeping *you* interested.
2006-08-28 20:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so desperate. Don't answer your phone a couple of times. Keep him guessing. You're being too easy and he know you will take it. If he loves you that much, he'll call again and probably a lot sooner if you aren't so desperate. If he doesn't, find a new guy, they come a dime a dozen. There are a lot of fish in the sea. Catch one that makes you happy and treats you nicely.
2006-08-28 19:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but can tell you to go about doing your everyday routine if he likes you he will call and then even if you aren't busy, say you are, just to keep him wondering what you are up to. If he doesn't call you-oh well no love there baby! Move on and find someone to treat you like a princess!
2006-08-28 19:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are desperate, and you sound it. Why would you even put up with that crap.
He doesn't love you, it's obvious, people in love with each other don't do those sorts of things, to their mates.
Forget him, time to start looking for someone who will treat you as you should be treated.
Like they loved you.
2006-08-28 19:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is trying to change something about you I suspect. If you`ve ever tried to give him the impression that you are tougher than him maybe what he doing is merely meant to disprove you. How about surrendering and asking him to talk this over? One important point: dont forget to use the typical lady`s` voice this time.
2006-08-28 19:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by charmmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy. But THE GUY IS JUST NOT INTO YOU. Dont waste your time with him. Do you want to be 80 years old and still whining about this?
2006-08-28 19:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes playing you like a fiddle!
2006-08-28 19:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it cause he can. Don't play the game, get out and move on.
2006-08-28 19:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Timf4515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a life first then you can go on
2006-08-28 19:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋