How do i get her to forgive me?

Question

She says im crowding her and now she wont talk to me, i will do anything to get our relationship back on track, plz, what should i do

Answer 1

You are being too needy. It is a wussy behavior.

You should focus on what not to do. Don't be so needy. Keep a little distance. Don't call her that much. Be a challenge. Show her you got a life and your world doesn't evolve around her.

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Answer 2

If she's feeling crowded, you must leave her alone for a while. There is nothing less attractive than a needy, clingy person. And, right now, that's how she sees you. Whether it's true or not is irrelevant. That's how she feels.

Any attempts to push yourself back into her life will destroy any possibility of getting back on track. Take it easy, and don't contact her for a week. Then, send her an e-mail and keep it short and sweet - "How are you doing?" - that sort of thing.

If she doesn't respond, leave her alone for another full week - NO CONTACT. Then call her. Again, if she's willing to talk, keep it short and sweet. DO NOT ask her out at this time. If she asks you on a date, that's fine, but don't pressure her. Call her again in a week and ask her out. If she's interested, she'll go. If not, then this is just her way of politely breaking up with you.

Clinging to someone will scare them away. No one wants a stalker. I'm not saying you are, but that's how she'll see it.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First of all, women needs a lot of fresh air to breath. Also, if you truly believe that you can save your relationship, then don't stick around her much. Try romancing her of the whole obsession thing. If my man did the same thing, I'd want a sincere apology, coming from the heart. Then, try giving her some flowers, chocolate, or romantic dinner. Or plain and simple say sorry and give her a tender and sincere kiss on the cheeks. To let her know that you're willing to give up anything for her, even if it takes forever. If she truly loves you, she won't be playing with your heart, she will accept you the way you are, and if she doesn't need anything more from you than your love and affection. Stick with your guts and common sense. That's all I can say and I hope you both have happiness forever. True love is what it is and nothing more.....

Answer 4

I think the first thing is to let it go for a while. You need to realize that the more you are holding on and the tighter you hold on the more distant you become as she feels you are controlling her....dominating her.....not letting her be her.

I know from past teen experieince that insecurity leads to the desire to over do the love and over do the attention you are giving her. Strange is that you need to let her go. Deal with this after a few weeks of allowing her to either miss you or you both move on. Do not drive by her home, do not go to the places she hangs out, do not talk to her friends on what she is doing..... get totally lost.

From this week(s) apart you can get your confidence back. Do not freak out. It is important to give her distance or you will just have her tell you good bye.

Answer 5

I'd just let her go. You see? She doesn't want you because you are obsessed with her. I've lost a girl that way. Women need space and air to breathe. By what I am reading you are making her claustrophobic.

I have had friends, family members, girls, etc. who were obsessed with me for my friendship or for love or whatever. Whatever the reason, it is a creepy feeling when someone treats you that way. And it makes the recipient of that treatment feel grossed out by it. I had to stop hanging out with one of my friends because he was getting too close to me. It was sickening and disturbing to me. It is as if the person is always trying to invade my thoughts.

It's very controlling and annoying to any healthy person who is free spirited and needs a bit of independence.

Stop torturing her. If you really love her, the ticket is to back off and accept you cannot have her by the way you are crowding her.

Otherwise, it's drama queen madness that all stems from your parents spoiling you during your early childhood development.

Answer 6

crowding her?.. well .. i dont really understand but i guess the answer is the same..

1 talk to her form the heart and tell her how you feel
2 ask for fogiveness from the bottom of your heart
3. be at peace with yourself

* if she loves you she will forgive you ..

Answer 7

you sound desperate but i think you shouldnt give up.
go on a romantic date with her after she forh=gives you...and takes you baq and tell her how you feel about her dont try to push her oof sso much then she wont feel so comfortable around you again. and you will be dumped for the rest of your life you will be a desperate old man with 9 cats sittin and drinking tea in a 90 degree day weather with your collar shirt and your baggy polyester pants with no life siitin and thinking about what a dumass you were bt anyways........GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 8

Translation: Crowding you = I am over you...please leave me a lone. Move on and when or if she comes running, run the other way. Good luck

Answer 9

tell her that you would like the relationship to continue and that you will give her the space that she wants. tell her that she was right and that you should have kept your distance every once in a while. that way she gets what she wants you get what you want and she will most likley want to continue with your relationship because you were sincere in accepting your fault

Answer 10

Dude, find a girl that's as serious about a relationship as you.

This isn't about something you've done wrong, its about her lack of commitment. You can't change that.