2006-08-28 12:35:28 · 29 answers · asked by vfalcons05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. Chances are you both are young and not ready anyway. With sex comes more emotions and a commitment for life. Some would argue with that but they can remember every person they have slept with I gurantee it....and now they are married with kids and have all those other partners trapped in their minds for ever. That is not good for a sex life with you husband or wife. Choose to dump the dude, trust me.
2006-08-28 12:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you really loved me you would not ask me to do something until I was ready. There is no need to forfeit ones virginity for purposes of proving ones affection. This is wrong.
Any boy that does this is trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants not what you should together. IS he ready to be a father if an accident happens - (but an accident isn't really an accident as that is what the parts are there for....really) There is plenty time for physical - the love comes from commitments to love you forever - love you if you could not even have sex.
2006-08-28 19:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the oldest trick in the book to get you to say yes. So the girl says "yes I love you," and in most cases he is gone the next day, or until you get pregnant. Then he is really gone and he has the nerve to ask for a dna test to "prove" the baby is his. Unfortunately this is what happens almost every time, because if he really loved you, he would respect you enough to take "no" for an answer. He would want to protect you from an unwanted pregnancy, and your right to decide what you want in your life.
2006-08-28 19:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a man. You need to explain to him love isn't about having to give any thing up its about loving yourself. Then dump him before you find yourself with some serious problems.
2006-08-28 19:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him you don't love me,all you want is a norther piece to tell your friends about .and i bet thy have a money on you see if you gave it up .and that's the truth get real no man or boy is worth that ****.save it your better off in the long run i know for fact save it for someone that will love you for you and not what you have between your legs . fact.
2006-08-28 19:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and say "If you really loved me you wouldn't play baby mind games with me"
2006-08-29 11:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by jenny2tone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WIT HIM!!!! just by those words comin out his mouth u already know his intentions...hes not worth it..dont even bother respondin "IF U LOVE ME U WOULDNT ASK" cuz obiously he doesnt...leave him because hes tryin to pressure u into havin sex...its when u want not when he says so...
2006-08-28 19:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "because i know i really love you, and since we will be together for such a long time, i feel like waiting and not doing it now cause that will be the only thing you will think about again...HONEY." good luck, i hate men who do that.
2006-08-28 19:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its always up to you ....as a person you have a right to make a choice , what happens to you in your life , if you allow it happen , then its okay with you..you have given the consent .you don't really have to prove your love to someone ...if they are in doubt then ...they should be moving on ...its a feeling no proof to be given here.
2006-08-28 19:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian Ramos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry behind. He shouldn't use emotional blackmail like that and if he did love you he wouldn't. Go back to him "If you really love me, you would respect my wishes" if he persist as I previously said dump his sorry behind.
2006-08-28 19:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋