You've tried talking to your child to explain the important of school, but that goes in one ear and out the other..how do you deal with one, without loosing your temper!
2006-08-28 12:26:48 · 20 answers · asked by meja01 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
take away everything he enjoys til he learns his lesson
2006-08-28 12:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Punishment. Take away TV, phone, computer time (Other than for homework), etc. No going with friends. He needs to learn that other kids do not want to be disrupted when they are trying to learn. Has he been checked for a learning disability? A lot of kids, if they have one, will disrupt the class because they are frustrated. Also on the other hand, if your child is getting good grades, they may get bored easily and need to be in a more challenging class.
2006-08-28 12:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would want to know WHY he's being disruptive in class. For children, all behavior is also a tool of communication. He's trying to tell people something. Your job, and the school's job is to find out what. He could be bored, he could already know the material. He could have ADHD, and have poor impulse control. He could be tired, he could be hungry. He could be bullied or a bully. There are any number of reasons as to why he's being disruptive in class, but until you know the reason, talking to him is going to go in one ear and out the other.
Sit down with his teachers, and ask them what they think, they are, after all, the people who are with him. What's going on when he's disrupting the class? Is it happening at a particular time of day? Is there a group of kids in the class that are egging him on, or that he's trying to impress? Hopefully you're getting my drift here, and can find out what's going on with your son. You could also request that the school perform what's called a Functional Behavior Assessment. Good luck!
2006-08-28 14:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do is show examples like this kid didn't behave in class, he ditched he did drugs or whatever and he or she didnt learn now he or she doesn't have a job and is a homeless or stuff like that so it could get through the head that without school there is no future for you and you will stay a bum.
2006-08-28 12:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gaiane t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can work together with the school to change his behavior. This may be rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behavior. It may mean changing his diet. How many sugars and food additives is he eating? Check the Feingold Diet.
The important thing is for you and your partner (husband, boyfriend) to be consistant and not give in just because your child whines or complains too much.
2006-08-28 13:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom used No Video games as a rule. If he was disruptive he didn't get his video games. The note in class works too, as long as he gets good marks he gets more play time. Until then, its study study study.
My mom said that if he wasn't going to pay attention to school at school, might as well at home.
2006-08-28 12:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by bmxchic7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it just happens that I too have been in your shoes!!
My son is 10, so disruptive in class that he & the principal are friends(no joke). My son's dad & I took turns going to school with our son, sitting in class with him, eating lunch next to him, recess and P.E. with the folks! After a WK. Sean's behavior improved. Good Luck
2006-08-28 12:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by trayz300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Public humiliation. Make him stand in front of the school with his mommy in a taped off box, not allowed to talk to anyone or move, until all the time he has wasted in school is made up. Crack that whip.
2006-08-28 12:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by daspook19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a daily report from the teacher. Bad report, then no TV, computer, playstation or whatever.
Check out his diet as well. This could be an addative reaction.
2006-08-28 12:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have his father deal with him. If he doesn't have a father, he needs a good male figure in his life to guide him. If you don't have one in the family, get one in church. The worse years are yet to come so get busy now.
2006-08-28 12:34:09 · answer #11 · answered by jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋