I have never lived with anyone and now I am in a relationship where my boyfriend wants to move in. I resisted before because I had children. now my kids are all grown up and moved out and i was wondering what would be the appropriate amount of time to move in with someone?
2006-08-28 12:20:59 · 19 answers · asked by annetteb1432003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about the night of the wedding. Your grown up so act like it. Your not a teeny bopper looking for a thrill. If you LOVE him , make the commitment, it's a sure fire action of love. ask him the same thing. IF he loves you, he'll be willing to make a legal commitment back to you.
2006-08-28 12:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by lcj43938 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
If it feels right to you and the one your talking about go ahead and do it only you and that other person can truly know if it feels real. I'm living proof that you can fall in love at first sight it was 3 mths for us and sept,1st we will celebrate 10 years without any fights and together we have 5 kids and 4 grandkids:)
2006-08-28 19:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by littlejiffypopmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on all your strongly feel about moving in with your boyfriend. I would give it about six months. I would ask myself is this someone whom I want to spend the rest of my life. When you move in with your boyfriend, some people are going to talk and say that you sinning and things. But, I wouldn't pay them no way. I just thought I would make that comment. I hope this helps.
2006-08-28 19:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel ready and ok with it. try going slow like spend a week there first.. then continue doing lil things like that to see what it would be like to live with him. i would say probably close to a year of being togethyer before actually moving in
2006-08-28 19:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say from around 8 months to 3 years. Any other than that it means it's either too early or too late.
2006-08-28 19:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - 3 hours
2006-08-28 19:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by even l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right time: when you know really well the other person, and you think that you are ready; and when you think you can handle the relationship very well. Think good and well about that, and good luck.
2006-08-28 19:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 to 8 months or perhaps when your ready
2006-08-28 19:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him move in to your place and don't move in to his place...
get neutral place (i.e. get a new place together) Whenever you feel like you are ready .
So if something happens you are not told that it was his place and you have to get out and vice versa.....
2006-08-28 19:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by princessearching 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends, i was with my other half 4 months when we bought a house together, that was 12 years ago - still going strong
2006-08-28 19:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋