I have noticed lately, as a guy, that on my first day back to my university, that I am attracting a ton of women to me who are both intellectual and beautiful. It is a surprise to me because I have never had this kind of attention before, and over the summer I did mature a little more as I am now a Junior in college. My question however, has to do with this attraction as I want to understand why this is so now. It seems like the more women that are attracted to me or anyone for that matter, the more will be attracted later on. It's as if women want what other women want and if they know another wants you, they will want you as well. Is this a correct assumption? Have you seen this as well or is this just a special case per-say? What attracts you to a man or woman?
2006-08-28 11:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have fun in Uni a combination of intellectual and beautiful women is a 1 in 4 chance so enjoy it.
Speaking as a woman myself that is a definite yes, lots of women like to have what other women have/want. Not really because they need or want it but simply because they think, there must be a good reason why she wants him/it so why don't I try and have it. Guys do exactly the same.
Intellect, personality and looks attract me to a man. I know many say wanting good looking guys is shallow but that is just silly cause on average good looking people earn 13% more than ugly people that is a fact and my kids are going to have their 13%. But the good looks must be accompanied by a good personality and a brilliant mind which I can relate to.
2006-08-28 12:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I called social proof.
One technique I apply at clubs. When you enter a club with 2 hot females vs. 2 of your guy friends. Result can be very different. If you enter the club with 2 hot females, all the girls in the club will take notice. You will be perceived as the "pimp" and that's all the validation the girls need to find you more attractive.
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2006-08-28 19:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the confidence you have. After the 2 years you've had your more certain of your standings in the collegiate setting. It will be the same way when you grad and take your first compelling position. But beware of a new situation, women at the work place
2006-08-28 19:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by derek4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the woman. some want what they can't have or what others want, others don't. so far, the one guy I really liked, I didn't even know a friend of mine liked him until about 3 weeks later. when I found out he liked her back, I just let it go LOL
2006-08-28 19:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is correct
Women want what other women want and have. Typically, they want most that which they are not supposed to have.
2006-08-28 18:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck in college buddy
2006-08-28 18:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋