He asked me out. But I said no.. and now he keeps callin at my house.. he keeps sendin me these letters. he is totally scarin me.
I need help..
2006-08-28 11:43:48 · 13 answers · asked by kelly A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know how he got my email address or my phone number... im really scared... he sent me lots of warnings... i guess its because i slaped him in the public
2006-08-29 03:59:33 · update #1
Ignore his letters. Block his emails. Have you father answer the phone and tell him to stop. Change the phone number. That way he has no way of getting in touch with you. Call the police and open up a file in case there's need to follow up on the matter with them.
2006-08-28 11:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR PARENTS. Your instincts are not likely to be wrong. Girls get killed. Don't be one of them. If your parents aren't dependable, go to a minister or a policeman you know, or a teacher, BUT, DO IT NOW!! Tell them if they determine it is an ordinary guy who has no evil intent, to tell him you aren't interested, and will consider it harassment if he contacts you again. DO NOT get in a car with him under any pretext. I am worried about you. The more I think about it, the more I think it should be a police matter. A normal person does not do this.
2006-08-28 19:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by choo-Choos Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him when in public you dont like if ya dont and to leave ya alone if ya like or friend thing then tell them to just cool it, let em know and if wont quit ya have to go to the police and file complaint and get restrainin order other wise if got a big boy friend or just a friend have em scare him off good luck but be careful
2006-08-28 18:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him nicely to stop and if that doesn't work put a harassment charge on him. I know it sounds harsh but with some people it is all that works.
2006-08-28 18:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by mrsmay28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him outright that you're not interrested? You've got to be direct with guys like that!
If you HAVE been direct and he's still harassing you, call the cops. Chances are, your state has some sort of stalking law.
2006-08-28 18:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old r u he mite jus b wanning 2 go out wit u but if it gets to serious u need to let ur parents know bout it!!!!
2006-08-28 18:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by lovable angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe don't be scared. I won't hurt you... I'll just eat you alive!!!
Just let him know upfront that you don't like him and is not attracted to him and to stop obsessin' on you. Sometimes, guys like me feel that you are giving us mixed emotions. Please stop doing that and just tell it to our face directly that you are not in any way attracted to us.
2006-08-28 18:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an attentive man. Try accepting one date with him and see how it goes, maybe you will like all the attention he has.
2006-08-28 18:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say straight up leave me alone or i'll file a restraining order----how in the world did he get all your info if you just met him?
2006-08-28 18:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by s91601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop or you will call the police
2006-09-05 08:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋