Ok today my gf got mad at me cuz I wont let her see my nipple ring but she found out I let my exs see. So she flips out and cusses me out then leaves. Then I find out shes been talking to this other guy and told him she likes him but loves me and wishes she met him before she met me. Why are girls so dumb? What should I do?
2006-08-28 11:42:35 · 25 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i offered to show her then she got all bitchy and said oh now u think of me so i f it and her.
2006-08-28 11:48:16 · update #1
guys are as well
2006-08-28 11:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*There are dumb people in both sexes. It's not just the girls*
Ok, with that taken care of, I'd like to ask: Why won't you just show her the darn ring? I mean, I can understand how that would (yes, even as dumb as it is) make someone feel a lil jealous or like they don't mean much to you. Although, I really don't think that sort of reaction was neccicary.
Now, in terms with that other junk, well there are a couple things that could be going on.
1)She could be feeling really hurt about the nipple thing (and perhaps some other things you do not know about) and all that could be stemming from that anger. Does it mean its true? Not neccicarily, just that she's pissed and immature.
2)She could just be a big b**** and in which case, you'd be better off without her.
But before you go ahead and decide which of the two applies to you, I think it would be good for you to actually talk to her. As helpful as it is to hear the opinions of others, that is all that they are: opinions. Ask her why she said that, ask her how she feels and then reverse things and do the same. Then maybe you two can figure out if this is something worth working on.
Best of luck.
2006-08-28 11:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask a girl like me this question. So here goes: Everyone could tell this relationship was going down the drain because she obviously didnt trust you because she was nosey enough to ask your EX if she seen your nipple ring, Forget her that was a dumb reason for her to dump you. There will be plenty more girls, And for the record Girls CAN be dumb as well as boys so for the record Do U think Im Dumb?
2006-08-28 11:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Chuckles. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are guys so dumb in relationships? What you did was wrong, you should not have let your exes see your nipple ring if you are not interested in them. Yet, you did not let your girlfriend see your nipple ring, wrong, DON"T YOU THINK. That is very harsh. I am not defending your girlfriend for her actions because she should not have told another guy her feelings and wants for him but she may have said it to make you jealous because of what you did to her. Both males and females are immature in relationships until they grow up and mature, understanding the other person in the relationship.
2006-08-28 11:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just jealous of you. so just leave her and find someone else who is smart and not dumb. for one you did make a mistake by not letting her seeing you nipple ring and let you ex see it. oooooppppssss big mistake on that. she'll think that your to good for her. now she is gonna play games with you. you don't need that. you know yourself than anyone. leave her. when she comes out of the closet, she'll be right back into your arms. don't go that route. just push away. first time can leave to another time. dude there is lots more smart females out there than just the dumb ones.
2006-08-28 11:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well basically. She's over-reacting, which girls do a lot of. You should try telling her that if she's with you she can't just like another guy. She would have to pick. It seems like a kind of useless situation anyway: Try showing her your nipple ring and maybe you two aren"t right for eachother
2006-08-28 11:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by katie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just show her your nipple ring? But if she's wishing she was with some other guy, give her a reason to be with him.
2006-08-28 11:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by krandall_214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo Slappy, your part of the problem. Some things that women ask just do, the reason will expose itself later. It may not be what you want or you still could be confused by it. But it will keep down a lot of arguements.
2006-08-28 11:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by derek4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one evryone guy or girl are not smart in relationships but if you are showin to an ex but not her then your the stupid one there and for her talkin to this guy maybe bein mad at you this was a way to get even? you need to change you before thinkin bad and wrong on the other
2006-08-28 11:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dah! Show her the nipple ring. What is your hang up about showing her? Do you think she'll get too excited or something?
2006-08-28 11:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not dumb. They are just trying to get on the same level as the idiot guys they date!
2006-08-28 11:47:04 · answer #11 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋