It has only been four days since I saw him. Will he call me or should I call him?
2006-08-28 11:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, take a deep breath. relax. Don't call him unless you think you absolutely have to. You don't want to seem like your clinging. What you should do is focus on your school work, use it as a distraction instead of the other way around. When he see's you have not called i am sure he will call. You don't wanna call and then sit and wonder if he was ever gonna call first. But as i said if your that distracted and cant focus on your school work then by all means be the first to call but be cool.
2006-08-28 11:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by candylishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are young and boys are everythiing in a teen-aged girl's life. I've been one-;) But, you simply must direct your attention to school. You can't depend on a man to take care of you, well, I mean if you ever got married then found yourself suddenly widowed. You need to concentrate on school and college to earn a degree in something that will support you if you ever find yourself alone; and pray not with children.
Mine are 7 and 5 and they are a handful. Thank heavens I have a husband but, I also am a nursing assistant and I can still support myself and my children if my husband died.
Be good to yourself and try to stay on the school.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 11:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard guys saying that they like to wait a couple of days before calling a girl back. If the weekend comes around and he still hasn't called you then just move on.
2006-08-28 11:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shoudl wait a little longer and find out more about him.. does he have a gf? Does he like someone? It's probably a good idea to get to know him rather than just randomly calling his house and telling him that after four days you like him. Maybe you could tell your friends to talk you up to him. But remember, sometimes guys don't like girls who they can have, but then again, there are those guys who will have any girl.
2006-08-28 11:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him...its been FOUR days...who knows...maybe he's thinking...when the hell is she going to get ahold of me...or maybe he wants to call you but is too scared just like you are. And even if neighter is the case...at least you'll know sooner rather than later. Now, instead of just hearing my advice and thinking, ya that sounds good, like girls always do, ACTUALLY TAKE IT!!
2006-08-28 11:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your past the 2 day point, so its unusual for you to still have him that clear in you mind. And now its unlikely that he will call you back. Its time to show him your keen. You'd better call him before its too late!
2006-08-28 11:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez if it's that bad call him and get it over with so you can focus on school. School is more important right now whether you know it or not.
2006-08-28 11:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, It's not healthy for you to be affected by him that much.
Focus on school so you'll have a bright future.
2006-08-28 11:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him or send him a card. A miss you card. Ask him if this relationship is going anywhere.
2006-08-28 11:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by diamondblue382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if only he wants to call you , he'll do that without thinking
by the way , did you give him your number? lol
2006-08-28 11:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋