2006-08-28 11:40:55 · 25 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Llisten only. Don't offer advice. He will work it out on his own just talking. Might take a while though.
2006-08-28 11:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Skepticalist 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband's job stressed him out so bad that he seriously thought he was having a heart attack on 3 different occasions. Started seeing a cardiologist & had a stress test done.
His heart was fine. Through all of this the only thing I could do was just be there for him. Talk to him when he felt like talking, or just sit with him and not say a word if he didn't feel like talking. Just let him know you're there if he needs you, but that you will give him space if he needs it.
2006-08-28 18:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him.. Don't cause him anymore stress because then you will become the blame.. Men can't handle pressure and stress that is why when there back is against the wall at home the go looking for the attention elsewhere.. You need to become his stress reliever... Cook dinner for him before he gets home.. Let him watch Football or basketball, with out you interfering. Just let him be.. Then he will see that you are not trying to cause him any more stress.. Let that job be that job and when he comes home he knows that he is coming home to a good thing....
2006-08-28 18:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shonda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my b/f is stressed out I just be there for him to talk to. Sometimes they just need to express their feelings without you answering back. If I do answer I always give good reason as to why they should continue working, but if it something that continuously pisses him off, I tell him to way his options. Maybe that's not for him right now and should think about looking into something else.
2006-08-28 18:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound bitter....but I'm gonna say it anyway. Been there, done that. Unless he is your husband and has proven to you that he loves and cherishes you, DO NOT go out of your way to help him.
I have done that more than once and all you get is they guy leaving you once he has his feet back on the ground.
Bitter....yeah. But experience is the best teacher.
2006-08-28 18:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )
It is a really good stress site.
There are lots of articles on all stress related topics.
I think you will find help for this situation there.
2006-08-31 22:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being there for him, and listening to him makes a big diffrence. Also, you can give a few suggestions how to handle the problem if he wants it. Just being there with him will make him feel like he's not doing it alone. Good luck!!
2006-08-28 18:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by sunnyrays61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to help in any way you can. For example, if he needs to pick up copies from the copy store, offer to do it for him. Or if he is too busy to take lunch or has to work late, drop off food to him. Or if you know he is addicted to coffee or red bull or jamba juice or what ever, offer to drop some off to him or just surprise him with it. Don't be demanding of his time and if doesn't want to talk, just be there for him.
2006-08-28 18:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by gtn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him.....stress can cause a hear attack, so maybe try and relieve that stress........soft words, a massage, anything that will make him relax some
2006-08-28 18:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) DO NOT take it personally.....anything......ever!!
(Did that make sense?)
2) Feed him his favorite foods
3) Bee continually available to give back rubs
4) Do not be needy, whiny, demanding or sour
5) Find ways to get him laughing
6) Never never withhold sex!!
2006-08-28 18:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋