i am going out with this guy and he asked me out a few days ago. i said yes when i shouldnt have. i really like him as a friend. i have no feelings for him at all but i dont know how to dump him without hurting him. what should i say?
2006-08-28 11:31:56 · 16 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about honesty, Shannan? It's a good policy!
2006-08-28 11:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an open mind. The guy I'm with, I was about to set up with my sister, then one day I realized, I didn't just like him as a friend I loved him. He's the greatest man I've ever had and we're getting married.
2006-08-28 18:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by TheMightyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it is a DATE...you are not getting married, for God's sake! Go on out on the date. You might "network" and meet some new people! What's one date? I've dated alot of "frogs" but you have to kiss alot of them to find a prince, and I finally did find one! You don't have to hurt him, just have a good time this one time and don't accept again if you still feel the same afterward. Godloveya!
2006-08-28 18:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay anyone getting dumped iwill get there feelings hurt but that makes us astrong person.. The only think i can say is the sooner the better! the longer you wait the more difficult for you and the more pain full for them!
Mad luv
2006-08-28 18:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a second date and see how that goes; might be better. If you're sure there's no chemistry, don't string him along, that's never okay. Just tell him you don't want to ruin your friendship because you value that. It isn't going to be FUN, but the sooner you tell him the truth(nicely) the better.goodluck:)
2006-08-28 18:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by amereilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well-- be nice an go out on a date with him an sometime during the night be like oh ur such a good friend to me-- then hell get the idea an know u like him just as a bud
2006-08-28 18:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by sourkandi2486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him because you said yes and because you have personal integrity, but tell him you met someone new and would like to decline any further dates with him.
2006-08-28 18:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out on the date with him and see how it goes. There has to be time to get to know one another.
2006-08-28 18:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about telling him the truth, it will hurt less on the long run.
2006-08-28 18:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by John J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hey I like you as a friend not as a B/F didn't mean to lead you on!!!
2006-08-28 18:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋