Why is it that every girl I ever seem to meet has about two things going for them? They are pretty and know how to party? Granted those things are icing on a cake, but why is it that I just cant seem to find someone with more to them than that. I'm a pretty good looking guy, educated, outgoing, etc., but all I can seem to find are these complete airheads. Where am I supposed to be going, that apparently I'm not, to find someone with more depth than that? Hell, do they even exsist anymore or has society completely wiped them out? I guess that's a bunch of questions. It's just all so frustrating
2006-08-28 11:23:38 · 23 answers · asked by Vespr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand how difficult it can be, being so good looking, educated and outgoing, however these are the burdens that people like us have to bear. Nobody can quite live up to our expectations.
However, once I realised that I was going to have to settle for the lesser mortals in this world, and came to accept that fact, life became a lot more bearable...
:)
2006-08-28 11:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Banwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you going to meet girls? Let me guess, a party or a bar! Well, no wonder they are all airheads! Try scouting out the local book store or library or even college coffee shops. Or maybe at your work place, if you work with people who are educated etc... Or, ask your friends if they know any quality girls who are available and see if they can introduce you.
2006-08-28 11:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for the most part a guy jumps in the saddle and does not care that the girl has the ride of her life! Normally it is wham, bam, and if she is lucky a thank you Ma'm! Getting what a guy wants is easy but making the girl get off is the best of everything! Most girls go 'Bi' because they are frustrated with not got getting there with their guy. Learn oral and use it on your girls from now on and you will never (well unless they have a want of another girl) have to worry about losing your girl to another girl! Exercise your tongue and get busy!
2016-03-26 23:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met my daughter have you?
She is intelligent, goal oriented, out going, beautiful inside and out, working her way thru college as well as working full time and making major bucks.
I guess you're looking in all the wrong places. But it's been so long since I had to find some one to spend my life with I don't know where to tell you to try to look.
Maybe you are trying too hard, and Miss Right will show up when you least expect it.
2006-08-28 11:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say they are still out there. Perhaps try looking in places you haven't tried yet? There are people out there who care more about party's, looks, etc. you just have to keep lo
2014-11-27 21:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you ever look at them to see what kind of female they might be before talking to them. i know some men might say yes. i know as a female that looks might mean nothing to men. if you look real deep and you'll see the female before talking to them. exsample: way the dressed, how they fix their hair, the way how they walk, and begining around friends. that should give you a clue if they might all nothing but funny and party chicks or someone who looks like might just the one that might like you back. regular female will be straight with you and not trouble or party one. there are some good females out there. finding one is hard now days. no i'm guy but just telling the truth just like any friend would tell you.
2006-08-28 11:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who knows, maybe you think your educated, but a high school diploma isn't really consider a real education, most would think some kind of degree from college, but who knows, I am just a moron right. try some AA meetings or something, cuz what I am getting out of this is that you like bars some maybe a meeting would do. be like the dr on Nip and Tuck... hehe
2006-08-28 13:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by airforcebabe696 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to meet women in a bar.
try taking evening classes, hanging out with a professional organization, learning a new hobby, playing co-ed sports. You'll find women who have more going for them than knowing how to party.
2006-08-28 11:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you have some serious social issues of your own, since no one is on YOUR level! Too, from the way you write, there doesn't seem to be any interest on the female part.
As for same interest meetings, I would think that you only have to go where you like to go, do the things that you like to do and all around you will be people at where you like to go, doing what you like to do. That is, unless you are going to places that you consider to be beneath your standards.
2006-08-28 11:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem but with a different type of women....
They would all rather believe their momma about who to date
rather than
listen to themselves...
SO
I don't meet the kind that you attract...
I don't go to bars, clubs, church, governments (you know, any place someone goes to be told what to do) and I'm still surrounded by em.
good luck.
2006-08-28 11:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋