I really like this guy alot, and i know he likes me too, but i just really want him to love me instead of just likeing me ALOT ALOT ALOT. Cause i mean he makes me laugh, shares his food with me, shows off in front of me, lots of eye contact, hugs me, and teases me then says he joking then hugs me again, he also treats me like a queen. But i want to treat him like a king!! GUYS HELP!
2006-08-28 11:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i TREAT him like a king without involving hard sex, id like to stay a virgin thanks.
2006-08-28 11:20:50 · update #1
stop. seriously, just stop it.
there is nothing you can do for or to this guy that will make him love you. if he likes you and he treats you like a queen, then what are you so worried about? if you try too hard, he's just going to feel pressured and back off.
be his friend. keep having a great time with him. let him relax around you. get him to talk about himself. tell him you want to try ballroom dancing or boxing lessons or to learn to play the guitar or whatever and see how he responds. he may just jump at the chance to do something like that with you.
focus on yourself and doing things you love. invite him along. let him see how great you are.
if you want a relationship from him, then you are going to have to WAIT for him to make the move. if he's interested, he will. trust me. don't worry about him being too shy, or that he's worried about hurting the friendship. if he wants you, he will make the move. until then, work on the friendship and having fun with him.
cut all the crap about treating him like a king. it's ridiculous and it will only make you look desperate.
2006-08-28 11:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, you might want to wait a little while on this.
If you guys are young (under 21 and sometimes you have to wait till a guy is 25 until he's out of the player stage.) You might want to stay friends and hold out until you guys are in a position to have a good relationship.
A lot of guys do like he does, because they respect you and you are the type to marry, but they don't want to hurt you. So they wait until they are ready for somone like you while sleeping with other girls who are willing to give them a BJ or other sexual favors. The sexual favors girl, doesn't keep the guy and if she does, he usually dumps her for someone like you.
2006-08-28 18:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by TheMightyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont come off as desperate. See where things go. Let him have time to make a move. If he doesnt soon, then YOU make the move. But dont be all willing to give him the world because if you give a guy everything right away what does he have to look forward to later? Good luck.
2006-08-28 18:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello Claristina B,
Have you tried asking him what he would like you to do for him that would make him feel like a king? Tell him that you would be open to anything and then try to do it for him. He might be just happy being with you more or he might want something down and dirty that if you did it, he would be hooked. Just ask him. Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-28 18:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook a good meal for him
make a worthy massage & incl foot massage
2006-08-28 18:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a bj
2006-08-28 18:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a great gf,, and yourself,,that helps...
2006-08-28 18:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋