Is this the kind of woman you would want to marry? (guys)?

Question

I am a godly Christian young woman. I'm 18 years old. I know how to treat a guy and i am modest and i have saved everything for my future husband. I love the Lord and i'm striving each and everyday to please him. I have all sorts of hobbies like photography and snowboading just to name a few. I can cook really welll..i LOVE cleaning the house and decorating. I also really want to be a mother.
As far as physical things go i'm 5 ft and slim but i do have meat on my. I have curves and a great butt ( not that that really matters) i have long brown hair and dark brown eyes.

Ok so i'm not putting myself out there and i'm not looking for someone...i'm just trying to see if any guys are attracted to a girl like this. Just kinda want to see where you guys are at. I'm curious to see your answers.

i am dead serious. Thats who i am. I am not lying.

Answer 1

I couldnt give a damn if you can cook, decorate and clean... etc!!

I couldnt care what religion you are or whether your a virgin until you get married!

These things are of little interest to me!!!

For me, I look for a decent girl that share the same chemistry... When I find that, I am a happy man!!!!

Enjoy and wait for the right guy!!!

Answer 2

The answer is... yes and no. sorry. the yes part is that there are many men who would find you (if you are actually like your description) the most wonderous creature in all of God's creation. In fact, their are sadly a fair number of terrible people who would like your virtue because it would pose a 'challenge' and would make you a more worthy 'conquest'. I appologize for speaking about you in such terms but I assume you want an accurate portrait of what kind of guy you could be attracting (or repelling).
Here is the great new. The only guys that would be inherently turned off by you are the ones who you should avoid anyway. The men who just want sex will avoid you. They will call you cold, Jesus Freak, high maintance, or a lesbian. The other type that will run from you are the idological bullies. The ones that want to impress women with their wit, charm, or education. They will avoid you becase of your strongly held christian beliefs. They will call you names too but if you are 18 and a christian, you have probably heard them already.
The bottom line is that if you are what you say then you will naturally attract the very kind of man you would want... God fearing, honest, loyal, dedicated, and resposible. (Wouldn't be bad if he were handsome too) If you stick to your guns and dont compromise for 'close enough' you will be fine. Just watch out for the slick guy that wants you as a trophy. I promise that if he says all the right things but his actions just dont quite line up then he has an alternative agenda. Good Luck!

Answer 3

All I have to say is it is hard to be a woman like you these days and not get used or treated like crap from a guy. I have learned that serious dating should wait until you are older because men your age are usually out to have fun, not be with one person right now. If I were you I would stick to people who have the same interests and beliefs that you do, you can possibly avoid a lot of jerks that way. Don't be in any hurry to get married or have kids most people have no idea who they even are until there late twenties. Stand your ground and your morals and Good Luck.P.S.Sometimes it is a good thing to not let a guy know To much about yourself at first that way they can't use you.

Answer 4

Hard question. I don't think I would marry either of them... they have some good qualities each but I think I would prefer just to be friends with the both of them. I think the bulldozer guy would be more fun to hang around with, but that's all since he has kids from a previous relationship.

Answer 5

Yes and yes, However most guys are shallow. Its hard to find someone to blend with your attributes. Values and personality are extremely important. Although, in this society, physical attraction is key to starting a relationship. Your 18, guys will appreciate you in about 6 to 8 more years.

Answer 6

Well if your description you wrote is correct then yes you are a candidate for the perfect woman! But if you are having problems finding the right guy then maybe your description is a little misleading. There is one more attribute to a good woman in my opinion. A woman that does not try to be controlling, and isnt annoying, by doing dumb things, ex. Jessica Simpson, sexy as hell, but dumb as hell!

Answer 7

You sound like a sensible beautiful young woman. Stay with your values and you will find a great young man to make a superb life with you. Good Luck.

Answer 8

It's hard to say if the majority of guys like a woman like you. You sound like a wonderful woman. I wish I had the chance to go out with you and get to know you better.

Answer 9

You would make a good housewife I suppose. We would argue religion and philosophy too much to work out though, and I'm not really interested in starting a family right now, I require a partner who could challenge and motivate me daily to pursue my talents and make something of my life.

Answer 10

MANY would but would you accept them ! don't you have standards too ?

and well what about education that's a one ! shouldn't you care about that before every thing ! because men can leave you but your degree wont !!!!!!!!!!!! and don't tell me that your gona depends on your husband for every thing !!!!!!! no matter how much you trust him and depends on him don't never ever give him the feeling that you cant go without him because if you do many stuff can happen
1- he could control you and don't tell me that couldn't happen coz it could !
2- he would feel like your nothing and you would too.
3- the responsibility may freak him out - boy how much that happened before :)
4- don't ever give him the chance to play the ( i pay the bills card ) because if you giving him the Chance he would even if he loves the earth that you walk on !
by the way your like 18 ! nothing to worry about !