This young guy keeps asking me out?

Question

he is 24 and i am 35, and he is mad over me and keeps asking me out. is it ok to date him since he is so young?

Answer 1

Tried that type of relationship once, and it never seemed to work out. Even though intimate moments were good, going out, finding things to do that were in common never seemed to work. Keep in mind this was a personal experience, and that everyone is different.

Answer 2

yes it is okay. you are both of legal age! why not just try it. the worse thing that could happen is you two don't get along. in that case have a friend call you (if you have a cellphone) during around the middle of your date or something to ask how everything is going. tell her (before the date) that if you say that you are not having a good time then to call you back in about 10 or 15 minutes for an "emergency" so you can leave early. it works like a charm!! good luck with it! give the guy a chance. you never know, he could be the one for you!!!

Answer 3

Is he mature for his age? Do both of you have some, or a lot, of things in common? Do you like him enough to want to date him, or do you just see him as a platonic friend? Where are you in your life right now - are you looking to have fun with men, or are you looking to settle down? Is he working (does he have a stable job), or studying, or bumming around? What are his intentions towards you - is he just looking for sex or does he want to be with you long-term?

There's nothing wrong with dating a younger man, it can be fun, but ultimately, if you both have different goals in life, is it really worth it in the long run?

This is just my opinion. And the best advise I can give you is to follow your gut instinct - if you're already having doubts, even before anything has happened, then you're probably not really keen on pursuing it.

On the otherhand, life is short, and ultimately, you are in charge of your own happiness. Sometimes, age is really just a number.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Yeah, why not? You should be flattered. if his age is the only reason you won't date him, forget that part. Unless he's 24 and ACTS like he's 24 (pounding beers, going "WOOOOOOOOO!!! PARTAAAAAAAYYY" all the time...), then there's no reason you can't go out with the guy at least once. I wish a 34 year old woman would have gone out with me when I was 24. The girls my age then seemed kinda immature.

Answer 5

He's a little young but I don't see anything wrong with testing out the waters. I'm 35 too, I would try if you like him.

Answer 6

In twenty years the difference wont seem as big its like when ur 15 ud never date a 12 yo wud ya ??

Answer 7

As long as he is over 18 then i don't see why not....
If he wants to take you out then you should let him, you never know (that's if you want to go out with him). He might be a mature young man that maybe has a lot in commen with you.

Answer 8

ive dated several women that were 10+ yrs older than me... nothing long term, but as long as both of you are OK with the age factor, then youll be fine. ive also dated women 10 years YOUNGER than me, and while it was great, after a few months, age became a factor-for me.

Answer 9

Hell go for it, while you still can

PS, Thought questions like this was for 16 and under, you should know what you want at 35

Answer 10

of course it is your a grown woman.

Now when you realize that you have nothing in common but sex remember thats what you had in common. Other than that have fun

one day you wont be able to boast such so do it now while men are still drooling.

Be prepared to teach