we've known eachother for over a month now and hes so sweet. In class he passes me notes abot fantasies hes had about us and they really turn me on. One day i was at his house and we were on his couch flirting and he asked me if we could make on of his fantasies come true. Its been a week now and hes being super sensitive about it.hes not pressuring me at all and hes such a great person. he tells me all the time im beautiful and that im not like most girls hes dated. hes the hottest guy that ever been in to me. We've talked about how we'll use a condom and that if one of us isnt comfortabl about it we wont. i like him so much and we've made out before. Should i?
2006-08-28 10:52:34 · 22 answers · asked by METAL CHICK_est.1977 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
yes his name is toni
2006-08-28 11:08:52 · update #1
ew!!!, what are u talking about "gay sex"!?! hes a guy and im a girl.
2006-08-28 11:16:54 · update #2
Jays Rock u seem cute.
And Casino thank u for being honest and not trying to sound like MRS.Brady like most of the others.
2006-08-28 11:37:58 · update #3
go ahead and jump his bones
2006-08-28 10:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm. How old are you? I guess that is an important question. If you're under 18 I would say WAIT. Just keeping enjoying life. If he is a quality guy he will wait. What is more important is the relationship, not whether or not you're having sex. Be assured, you can have sex with this guy today and he could still break up with you a month from now! There is NO guarantee that sex will result in a lasting relationship. You could get very hurt if you give him something like this and he moves on. Again, if he really cares for you he'll be willing to wait. I'm saying this as a guy who is over 20 if this matters.
2006-08-28 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by take_me_to_the_beach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex until he puts a ring on your finger. Condoms break and often slip off on younger boys (That haven't fully matured enough to hold it on).
The minute you have sex, will be the minute you start having panic attacks and worrying if you might be pregnant. Read this section for 3 days, and you will see 100's of teen girls freaking out that they could be pregnant. You don't need that kind of drama in your life. If this guy was so sweet, he wouldn't be sexually harassing you with notes about his immature fantasies. Once he's in your pants, he'll tell the whole world he did you, and you'll be labeled a whore. Please respect your self.
2006-08-28 10:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not have sex...you are not a grown woman you are a child
Sex is for adults only
Sex causes babies
Sex causes diseases some that cannot be cured such as AIDS
Wait till you are out of school and out of your parents house to have sex
You need to worry about education not sex
Protection does not work to prevent pregnancy...NOT HAVING SEX DOES
2006-08-28 13:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! All he wants is sex. He's a guy. If he really likes you then he would wait. Guys will say anything to get inside a girls pants. As soon as you two do that then it will be weird. He probably wont talk to you anymore. Plus you have only known him for a month!
2006-08-28 11:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you move ahead, ask yourself whether you're ready for the outcome. Even if you're protected by a condom, you can still get pregnant if there's a tiny hole on it. Don't rush yourself into sex if you're not ready. A guy can easily give complements to anyone that he wants to sleep with. Don't give in because he's cute; especially you're just friends with him.
2006-08-28 10:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless about what people say, sex is created by God to be used by people in a marriage relationship, i know it sounds impossible but nothing is impossible with God and also you will one day be thankful. He may not be pressuring you but obviously you are not sure if you want to otherwise you would not be asking these questions, hold your ground if he is really that into you he will stick around, if not than you will only be glad that you didnt do it!
2006-08-28 18:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by psalms912b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your ready, then go for it. Just be sure to use protection to prevent pregnancy or the transfer of STD's. Not lying, holding off on sex is really hard, especially when they get you in the mood like that ;)
2006-08-28 15:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex with your friend. Instead you should stay friends, and consentrate more on your schooling and what you want to do with your life. If you mess up now and wind up with baby the options you have now will be disrupted and you may never get the chance to go places in life that you want to go.
2006-08-28 10:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't give in. Why will he want to buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free. And even if you don't want a serious relationship this type of thing is what causes most problems...period!
2006-08-28 10:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes you should! I love it when i reel in a big fish. He has put in his time knowing you will give in. A month from now you can come on and ask all your pregnancy, single mom, STD questions.
2006-08-28 11:01:24 · answer #11 · answered by davenarmy66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋