I am meeting a girl that I once dated tonight for drinks. There is no chance of anything sexual happing as I have a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend. Should I tell my girlfriend that I am meeting her for a drink or just let her assume that I am meeting one of the guys out for a drink?
2006-08-28 10:25:16 · 17 answers · asked by hel_lno 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Depends on if she's the jealous type or not. Just tell her how it feels best to tell her. You could explain that it's a girl you're meeting from before so there'll always be that sense of honesty and directness. But since you feel it might be an issue, i'd tell her straight off of the bat.
2006-08-28 10:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her the you are meeting this girl for a drink.If she find out later,than you are in trouble,she will question you why you didn't tell her and start thing the something is going on.
2006-08-28 10:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really depend on your relationship with your girlfriend. If she finds out for someone else, my guess is, she will be really pissed. But if you two have a good loving relationship, let her know. I'm sure she'll understand. Or just take her with!!!
2006-08-28 10:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, do you want to keep your girlfriend.
Someone always see you when you do not want to be reported on. She may trust you completely, but you will have lied by omission. If my husband of 33 yrs met a woman for dinner without telling me, we would have a quiet house for a long time.
2006-08-28 10:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say let her assume, but the true answer maybe, if the situation was turned around would you like to know, then go from there.
2006-08-28 10:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her so she knows from the start that nothing is going on. If you don't tell her and she happens to see you or someone else sees you and tells her then she is going to think that something is going on and won't believe you.
2006-08-28 10:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want her to be honest with you?
Are you prepared to be in a relationship where honesty is not important to either of you. Are you willing to put up with her lying to you?
2006-08-28 10:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY are you meeting this girl?
Sounds like trouble to me.
2006-08-28 10:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by gobba55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately tell your girlfriend - you might run into a mutual friend, and you don't want her to find out second hand
2006-08-28 10:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by kathleen f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be honest now, because if she finds out later, the poop will hit the fan.
2006-08-28 10:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Judge Smails 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋