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I like this girl and we have hung out almost every weekend this summer because our parents have campgrounds together at a local lake. We really became close but she had a boyfriend. Then she told me that she liked me and wanted to date me and I got excited and told her I felt the same way. She told me she wanted to take it slow though cause she still had feelings for her boyfriend. Then her boyfriend broke up with her and I asked her out and she told me she didn't know. Then a couple days later she told me she wasn't ready to date yet. Last night I asked her if she liked me and she told me she did in a way but didn't really like anybody enough to date them. Then she told me not to wait for her cause she doesn't know whats going to happen. I'm so confused as to what to do. Should I ask her out again or just give up. I like her so much and I can't really tell how she feels.

2006-08-28 10:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Floridaboy 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Is it really possible for a girls feelings to change that much in a month and could it have been something I did?

2006-08-28 10:21:10 · update #1

10 answers

yes girls may have their feelings changed every minute

2006-08-31 07:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0 0

You were close, but no Cigars.

You cannot make any one like/love you. It either happens or it doesn't. Nature controls that party all by Natures self!

No one gets to chose!

Everyplace, all over the world, the weather is different and in a continuous state of flux, Always changing.

GOD made the weather like that so that man would have a tiny idea about the ever changing state of the female mentality.

Don't even think about it! It is an on going storm and the male is forever caught up in it. And, as you know, storms can kill you!

In nature, only the male gets eaten or dies some other horrible death, fooling with the female concerning love and mating. It is never the reverse!

2006-08-28 18:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dude, she told you, "dont wait for her"

girls get confused like this sometimes, i'm sorry, its hormones, we cant help it,

a break up is a big deal for us, and maybe she wants to get over her ex first,

and when she wanted to date you while she still had a boyfriend she was being greedy!

maybe you should stay her friend for a while, if you really want to take this thing further,

but i'd listen to her first suggestion, maybe after a break from you she'll know know what she wants!!

PS dont push her too hard for an answer, this will make her hate you!!

hope you find what you're looking for dude!!

2006-08-28 17:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0 0

It's possible for girl's feelings to change in 10 seconds, or when the wind changes.

Keep going after her confidentally, but NOT desperately

2006-08-28 17:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0 0

Well, here's what heppend in a girl's perspective. She liked you, and when her boyfriend broke up with her she was hurt. You moved in a little too quickly, she was still vulnerable. So now she thinks you're too eager. Just give it time.

2006-08-28 17:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by noname 3 · 1 0

give it time, papa. If you crowd her now, she's going to be annoyed by you.

She probably misses the other guy, and just realizes that now that she got dumped.

If you "dump" hr by not giving her constant attention like you have been, she's going to realize she misses you, then you'll see her come right back.

2006-08-28 17:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 3 · 0 0

sounds sort of like she's trying to let you down easily. and yes, we can change our minds about a guy in like, two seconds. keep trying, tho, i'm sure she'll fall 4 u eventually!

2006-08-28 17:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It means that she doesn't like you as a boyfriend but she likes you as a friend.

2006-08-28 17:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bill 6 · 0 0

here is what is up she is wanting to get back with her ex and if he don't take then there is you or maybe even someone else

2006-08-28 17:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it means that you make a very special friend.

2006-08-28 17:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by bernice l 4 · 0 0

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