We got along so well. We lasted long distance for 6 months after being together for 4. Our sex life was great! She was very attracted to me. We talked about everything and we grew together. I think the distance ruined it but I miss her so much. She started to pull away because she started to find friends and a life where she lives. I was too all about her I think and she said she became uninterested. I can understand that. I am not even interested in my life right now. It sucks cuz Im 28, I have a great job, my own place, a nice ride, I am a club dj, I look ****** good.. Im a very nice guy... if you are my girl I will do anything for you... I want a family and a home with my future wife... She used to say she wants that and now she says she doesnt want kids, she doesnt want to get married... she told me she is seeing another guy but he just comes over and she "does what she needs to do while he's there"... hmmm wonder what that is? anyway... it sucks... I want her back.
2006-08-28 10:18:44 · 16 answers · asked by onthedlyoshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it is not meant to be.... you know what they say about love.... if it is meant to be it will come back. So let her go and wait for her to come to you. While your doing that have fun!
2006-08-28 10:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Keith C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well long distance can be hard for anyone now a days. I'm in the army and I did alot of moving. I had a girlfriend for over 2 years and she was with me every step of the way. Eventually things will take a toll on you, from not seeing her everday to what you said, both parties finding other people to hang out with. At that point time also becomes a factor when you guys have two different sets of friends.
As far as her seeing another guy, that could be true and it could not be. People do crazy things and the world will not always understand. She could be lying or she could be telling you the truth. Why would she do you may ask, probably to make herself feel better about you guys and what happened. In my situation me and my ex are good friends and we talk frequently. We vowed to be there for each other no matter what and that seems to be holding up pretty well. Hopefully this helps you understand a little bit. And remember, if it's meant to be then it will be.
2006-08-28 17:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you need to let her go. She has already moved on so I suggest you do the same. Get in your nice ride, go out and have fun. Stop sweating her. She is probably getting a kick out of you chasing after her. Leave her a**! She has another boyfriend and giving up the a**! So what can she do for you now! You are 28 time to live or settle down. You dont have time to waste on someone that doesnt have the same goals or dreams as you. Dont even give her the satisfaction of a phone call or an email. Just forget about the hoe!
2006-08-28 17:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life the best thing to do is to walk away when this happens as hard as it is. We will never know all the answers why someone had done something. Sometimes we can't even figure ourselves out. I think you are doing the right thing by talking about this on the net with others. Good luck.
2006-08-28 17:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyBearCub 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that really sucks, I wish I could help you out somehow but theres not much that can be done with your realationship with her, anyways good luck in your life and I hope you find a girl that treats you right and will stay by your side the rest of your life
2006-08-28 17:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by atm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really is sad. It sucks when someone you love hurts you, but it might be for the best. She obviously doesn't have your best interest at heart, and if you want to get married and have kids and she doesn't...it probably wouldn't have worked out anyway. Go find someone who's worth all your time, love and attention!
2006-08-28 17:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Juli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't meant to be if you guys want different things anyway! just look at it this way: now you can find a girl that is actually in your area and you can see her every day! That is a gazillion times better! good luck!
2006-08-28 17:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man. It sounds like she is sending hints that she is over you. Another man? Saying she is not interested in any of your life goals herself? Those are usually signs.
2006-08-28 17:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go homes, you were a placeholder, and now you are free to find someone else who is impressed by what you have.
2006-08-28 17:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people just grow apart. iv felt that way before. you should just handle the fact that its ending and your just not ment to be. i sure you'll find someone else.
2006-08-28 17:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by that one chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋