Did your boyfriend's cousins' all after a while had a crush on you
If they did; how did you deal with it
My boyfriend say that my actions lead them on
But i don't see it that way
I just am being nice like the person i am
I'm not acting any different when I'm around them but to my regular self AND HE KNOWS THAT
Should I change and become grumpy when I'm around them or should I stay the same way I am.
THANKS IN ADVANCE
2006-08-28 10:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by annie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is what you should do. Sit down and ask your boyfriend how he thinks you led them on. Tell him to be specific. Take notes in your head or on paper, and after this conversation, evaluate your personality. Maybe, everyone around you thinks you like them. I know several girls like this, and as a guy, I try to tell them that they are giving off vibes. Sometimes, we have to change who we are around certain people. You don't have to be grumpy, but if you touch them a lot or spend lots of time with them, you are just asking for trouble. Do you like the attention so much that you don't mind hurting hurting your boyfriend? If so, he may leave next time. You just have to careful to make it obvious in someway that you are being nice, or you have to watch your actions to make sure you don't send out signals. Unless, you are secretly trying to hook up with his cousins.....
2006-08-28 10:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the way you are but discuss it with your boy. If you see signs of him becoming controlling, this is one of them. But do an honest check of yourself, are you flirtatious or trying to make your boyfriend jealous? If so, then just point that attention at him. He may be feeling left out or just sad that you would rather chat them up then him.
2006-08-28 17:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was a teenager i had a bf that i would have sworn i loved. he had a nephew that was the same age as us. well, the nephew was flirting and we ended up sleeping together. i lost my bf and the nephew. as it turned out i see now that i didnt' love either of them or i wouldn't have done that
2006-08-28 17:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself , if they say innapropriate things or make innappropriate actions make it clear your not interested as you have a bf and ask that they not do that
2006-08-28 17:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not yo fought they tryin to run a train on you. don't fall for it.
2006-08-28 17:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by livelygee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope but if they did i wouldn't talk to them
2006-08-28 17:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no .. you shouldn't be someone whou you are not .. just reject them nicely
2006-08-28 17:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never stop being you! NEVER!!
2006-08-28 17:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by chank1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋