Ok so my parents divorced when i was around 3 years old until i was about 6, i used to rotate houses and parents, i dont understand, when i was younger i had such a great relation ship with my dad, but now that im older i cant tell him anything or hardly talk to him, what can i do to gain back the relation ship i had with him when i was younger?
2006-08-28 10:10:10 · 9 answers · asked by Taisha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Write how you feel in a card and give it to him, underline important things you want him to notice.
2006-08-28 10:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by gormom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting older. It sometimes happens. It may not have anything to do with the fact that your parents are divorced or you go from one house to another. Just give it time. You are both going through age and time adjustments.
Talk to him as much as possible for any reason.
2006-08-28 17:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably never going to have the same relationship you had back then. You know, it's really hard to go through this. I'm dealing with it too, what you need to do is form a new relationship with him. Tell him how you feel, if you're embarrassed or he never seems to have time for you, write him a letter, or invite him to lunch or someone where you can be alone without distractions where you tell him how you feel. Trust yourself and him.
2006-08-28 17:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to have the exact relationship you had before. You have both changed. The best thing to do is invite him to do things with you that interest you & ask him what he would like to do & try those also. After you've spent some time doing what each other enjoys the communication should be able to happen naturally. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 17:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by neyfamily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't know how to act around you ..You are no longer his little girl..Set down with him and tell him about yourself , your likes and dislikes ......If he isn't in the same house with you then he doesn't know that much about you....
You need to tell him that you want him in your life
2006-08-28 17:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Ask him if he wants to do anything with you. Try to suggest things to do with him to bond with him.
2006-08-28 20:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST REALLY TRY TO SAY WHAT IS EVER ON UR MIND DONT HOLD NUTHIN BACK JUST LIKE WHEN U WERE YOUNGER AND I GURANTEE EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY
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2006-08-28 17:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and let him know you want to be part of his life and he part of yours and how much it means to you.
2006-08-28 17:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to do his fave thing that he allways wanted to do but never got to
2006-08-28 17:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋