my boyfriend says he loves me. but i dont love him back. i mean im only 15 going on 16. hes pretty certain and stubborn he does. but i know i dont love him. so i find it hard to say it to him back. what should i do?
2006-08-28 10:09:57 · 49 answers · asked by Poise ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, are you in this relationship just for the fun of it or are you really serious? If you know for a fact that you can't or don't love him maybe you should let him go before things get worse. Let him know nicely that you're too young to be in love and that you care about him a lot but not in that way. Tell him that you may love him as a friend but nothing more and hopefully he'll understand. Sometimes when you know deep in your heart that you don't love someone it's better to either end the relationship there or just become friends.
2006-08-28 10:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If he's the same age its just another timeless struggle of overpowering hormones. You don't love him so the only thing i can suggest is either tell him you don't love him and end it, or stay with him and see what happens, ya never know you might fall in love with him later on if you guys workout itn the long run. My question is if you don't love him, why are you with him in the first place? And please don't say 'cause he's good in bed' that would be so dumb its sad, and don't get mad at me for that lol, its just the truth.
2006-08-28 10:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Necrodrag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 15 you shouldn't need to worry about whether you love someone - enjoy being 15! If you don't feel that way about him then don't say it - saying something because you feel obligated to is not the way to go through life. Tell him how you feel - tell him you like him, he means a lot to you but that at 15 you aren't sure you really know what love is or what it will feel like. Make sure you let him know that you truly appreciate how he feels about you.
2006-08-28 10:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by trahub66 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dont say nothing back that you dont mean. If he pushes you.. and wants you to say it back, you could say.. I like you alot, but I am not in love with you. Just be honest.
2006-08-28 10:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, he probably doesn't love you. He's too young! I thought I loved someone when I was 15 and it wasn't until I was 19 that I knew what it really was. Don't sweat it. Just be honest.
2006-08-28 10:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready and for him to wait until you are. Be always honest. If he really loves you, he will wait for as long as it takes. By then, who knows, maybe you will be in love with him too. Good luck.
Chau.
2006-08-28 10:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by ForroChe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only young yet. you have got your whole life ahead of you and if you dont love him like he says he loves you. then it sounds to me like you should split from him.how long have you been togeather that is the most important thing is it just puppy love. how old is your boyfriend. he sounds like an arsehole.
2006-08-28 10:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by SIMON G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to cool it & back off a bit ot split up.
It is not really fair to keep him hanging on hoping when you are so certain that you do not love him. Put him out of his misery.
2006-08-28 10:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to tell the guy is to be honest, if that doesn't work then get someone else to go out with him.
2006-08-28 10:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Head Master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down, walk away if you think it is getting too serious too fast, your at the age where you are suppose to enjoy having a boyfriend and not getting too bogged down by all this love ****
Good luck
2006-08-28 10:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋