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Well, she claims to be pregnant with you child but she won't present any facts. One thing you haven't even know her for to long and she says she had already recieved an ultra sound. When this information was present to a lawyer and friend, they said it's no way a woman who's "4 or 5 weeks" pregnant is getting ultra sounds. Another thing you don't believe her anyway and don't believe it's your baby "if" she is pregnant in the first place. She lied about having a doctor's appointment and recently found out that she lied about a mis-carraige AGAIN. She tries to make you feel guilty by calling you and saying that she's sick and hungry but your really fed up with her games and you don't respond to any of her calls. What would you do?

2006-08-28 10:00:50 · 32 answers · asked by DLB 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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I'd tell her that, unless she was willing to present proof of pregnancy, ultra-sounds and other medical documentation, you'll file a stalking report and request a restraining order against her. I'm female, and I know that women do this ALL THE TIME when they're obsessed with a man. It's unhealthy. You might have been a jerk and mistreated her, but who cares. She needs help and you're not the one to give it to her.

In the event that she does miraculously present evidence, be honest, take some responsibility (but not all... she's an adult, too), and tell her she needs to get counselling for the miscarriage.

2006-08-28 10:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by kookoonuts 2 · 3 1

Women do have early ultrasounds. I had them with both of my kids. They're not standard practice unless there's a reason to be concerned (ectopic pregnancy, for example). Some doctors use it as a method to confirm a pregnancy, but this is unusual because they generally cost about $300 a pop--even more for the transvaginal ones (the ones they do during very early pregnancy).

If it were me, I'd stay as far the f*ck away from this girl as you can. Wait until after the baby is born, then have a DNA test done. If she won't give you any proof that she's pregnant or has been to the doctor, then there's something sneaking going on on her part.

2006-08-28 14:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 1 0

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2016-09-30 02:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

First off: You CAN get an ultrasound that early. Its a dating ultrasound to determine how far along she is. And you don't sound to sure that its not your child. The only way too find out if it is : a paternity test after the baby is born. Even if she refuses the courts will order one before she can legally collect any monies from you. This in turn gives you the right of access to the child. Your best bet would probably be (since your uncertain wethor it is or isnt yours) to put up with her **** make sure shes healthy throughout the pregnancy to give your potential baby a good headstart. Get the test if not say **** you and be on your way. If it does turn out to be yours you will feel good about being there from the start and when she needed you. I wish you all the best and good luck in what ever you decide to do.

2006-08-28 10:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by PHD-NDN 2 · 1 2

Well you can get an ultrasound that early i've a couple in the past but just let her be and she turns out to be pregnant then let DNA tell on her in some cases you can get a dna test while she is still pregnant only in some cases anyways if shes not pregnant bro use a condom

2006-08-28 12:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by nakishaholmes84 1 · 1 0

Tell her to grow up because her feeble attempts to trap you have failed. Secondly, your lawyer/friend is right. Third of all, she isn't pregnant at all if she does not want to give you proof. Lastly, if she really wanted u to take care of her baby that i supposedly yours IF she is even really pregnant then she would be quick to prove it. Also, when you have an ultrasound...you get a picture of the baby from the doctor, ask her where it is or ask her where she got her ultrasound done so you can call and confirm.

2006-08-28 10:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by ContessaVampira 3 · 3 1

Dude, stay away from this chick........she is mental and dangerous. A woman usually gets her first indicator that she is pregnant by missing her period, and if she went to the doctor they would tell her she is about 5 weeks. Really, there are no other symptoms other than missing her period (in those first weeks, she is usually very sleeping and will have very tender breasts). From your message, it sounds like she is playing you. Time will tell. When she asks you for food next time, bring it over....along with an EPT test and make her take it in front you!

She sounds like quite the loser!!! Sorry!! We are all not BAD! :)

2006-08-28 10:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 3 1

Assume she was lying. When a women is pregnant and needs help from the father she lets him know that she is defitnely pregnant. Sounds like she's playing games to keep you around. Next time bring your own condom.

2006-08-29 04:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by mommyof2 3 · 1 0

one they go give ultra sounds that early I had one when I was I think 6 weeks. second I wouldn't believe her unless she gives you proof. so tell her look give me the proof or I will not be Answering your calls or doing anything for you.

2006-08-28 11:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 1 0

Let her be. It sounds like she is really into mind games. If she actually has the baby or starts to show signs of really being pregnant, then you might reconsider what to do. I don't think it will matter if you try talking to her - she will just do something else to try and get your attention.

2006-08-28 10:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

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