A man I knew for a long time but never met is going to meet me and take me on a date then to a motel room at night. I know my parents would kill me but Im of legal age. He is 40 years old but looks younger and is hot. I want to feel like a little girl in his arms. Should I lose my virginity to him? I feel like I need a man at night all the time. I love him as well and hes so sexy.
I want to feel his body everynight and wake up with him next to me. I want to feel like a little girl in his strong arms and have him overpower me. I want it so bad I dont know what to do. I want him to sleep with me so badly.
2006-08-28 09:54:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is he taking you to a motel?? because his wife wouldn't be happy if he took you home?
he might have some great experience to be your "first" but you should really be very careful about going out with a guy that you have never met. you are just a young girl which can be overpowerde so easily.
maybe you should wait to have this first experience with someone you love and trust and who loves you back...
2006-08-28 10:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well a 40 year old man taking an 18 year old girl to a motel hes only looking for 1 thing and he will get it then he will disappear you are 18 but you need to act like you are 18 and not fall for this, besides this is very DANGEROUS he could be a serial killer or some pervert that just likes to mess with younger girls. Be Careful with this very careful.......now I am so worried about you please don't so this, I know that you want someone that you can be with, but approach this carefully and if you are still a virgin stay that way a little longer and if you are on here asking this, I think you are not sure about the situation and to you are whole heartedly sure about something please don't do it!!!
2006-08-28 10:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by stormy2u2001 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
DON'T!!! If you have never met him, just go to dinner. You don't want to end up in some motel room, possibly killed by some freak you thought you were in love with. I'll admitt, some 40 yr, old men are HOT, but you are worth more than that. Think with your brain! Meet the guy and form a relationship with him, get to know him. Good luck!!
2006-08-28 10:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by guccigirl01 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No way!! You are way to young for him!!!! Trust me I have a bad feeling about this!!!! If u wanna loose ur virginity that badly loose it to somebody whose around ur age!! Older guys are manipulative, he probably only wants you for the sex, and once he's satisfied, he'll dump u for some other girl who might be even younger!!! And if it's that bad just get a vibrator or something LOL!! And remember that if you meet some one online, they may not be who you think they are!!! It could be a trap!! DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!
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2006-08-28 10:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by deby r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's taking you to a motel room I dont think your future involves being in his arms every night. Before you loose your virginity to him and fall head over heals in love make sure you understand what your doing. At 40 if he needs to take you to a motel room then he's probably married.
2006-08-28 09:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound too noble or chivalrous of him on planning to take you to a motel. I think you need to think things over about meeting him. It just doesn't sound right to me. Many older guys fantasize about being with a virgin and it could be just what he is looking for, and he is probably telling you everything you want to hear. I think if you do meet him, hold off on having sex with him. If he is persistent then I think sex is the only thing he is looking for. It just really does not sound right to me. As much as you think you know about him, be careful with your actions. You don't really know this guy yet.
2006-08-28 10:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First be honest with yourself. Do you want a one night stand or a full ever-lasting relationship? And then imagine what he wants. Chances are your immediate goals are different??? Find out a lot more. If after checking it all out further, if it's true love on both your parts, then congratulations. Good luck with whatever your decision is.
2006-08-28 10:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by HoneyBearCub 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooooooooooo, dont do it!!! What ever you do dont do it. You will regret it for the rest of your life. This guy does not care for you at all. I am a guy and I know that all you are to him is another girl on his list. Why not wait to lose your virginity to someone whom you really love and who you know loves you back just as much. There are some really nice guys out there, but also some sweet talkers like this guy who you mean nothing to them. Please dont do this for your sake. Don't even go on the date!
2006-08-28 10:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Andy 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You have cooked up this image of this man as a perfect lover with strong arms and a tender touch, you are setting yourself up! many young girls find that their first time is not so wonderful except there is commitment and friendship and a man who is tender. what you have is a sexual fantasy, you imagine this guy as a knight in shining armour, you may meet a maniac with bad breadth, body odor and weird fantasies.
You don't need sex, you need commitment first. commit your life to Jesus and watch him direct your steps.
2006-08-28 10:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by debbie o 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad, bad, bad idea!
Even if you want to have sex with this person, please meet him in a public place first! If you met this guy on the internet, it's quite possible he is not who he claims to be. He could be some sort of psycho!
Never meet a stranger in a place where you'll be alone.
2006-08-28 09:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Toga748 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋