Here is the situation; I have a close friend who I spend a significant amount of time with. Her family is like a second one to me, and I would never do anything to hurt them. Recently I have been hanging out with her and her cousins and their spouses, more often then not and we have all gotten to be good friends, however I have gotten really attached to the husband of one of her cousin. Even though they are separating I feel that I do not have any right to follow up on those feelings now or ever. My problem is how do I stop thinking about him when everything in me knows that he is my perfect match?
2006-08-28 09:35:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, we all goes through the same situation one time or another. tell yourself "too bad, if he's available, we would make a good couple" if you look closely, you'll find something wrong with him. concentrate and emphasis on it. he'll soon be less attractive to you. in the mean time, occupy yourself with some activity that takes your mind of him.
2006-08-28 09:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are separating, which means that they are still going through the process so dont do anything that you know you'll regret later on. What goes around definitely comes back around and he could end up leaving you for someone else, it happens. As far as you thinking about him all the time there is nothing wrong with that, but when those thoughts turn into actions, you'll be in a world of confusion and emotional mess.
2006-08-28 16:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by champagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say that this girl is your true friend then out of respect for her you will not cross the lines of a good friendship for somebody that your not even sure will last becasue face it every body thinks someones their perfect match in the beginning but if you think its worth it talk to her abou tit dont go behind her back be real with her and yourself
2006-08-28 16:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by MonieJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously think he is your perfect match go for it but keep in mind that being with him could cost you that whole group of friends. He might not even like you, or do you know that he does?
2006-08-28 16:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your perfect match go after him but wait until everything is settteled between the ex's first. The ywill get over it especially if he treats you good.
2006-08-28 16:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by MISSREBEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats real is real take your time dont jump because he could be in rebound mode and if he says something to you let him know what you think but also keep it real and let him know you dont want to get hurt if he is in rebound mode as far as your friend keep it low and let her pick up on the vibes and see what she says All is fair in love and war
2006-08-28 16:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by phoxy phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else, be it a relationship or just a fling, and then when you are at the height of climax, try to see if you can still think about your so-called perfect match. that should be the end of it.
2006-08-28 16:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a BF anybody as soon as posible and stop talking to them put distance between you 2.
2006-08-28 16:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you need to do but remember, the grass always appears greener and sometimes it's greener because they are weeds.
2006-08-28 16:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that s tough
i say leave it alone or go for it
but with this answer i m confuse myself
i dont know
goodluck
2006-08-28 16:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋