I had no clue until I found a diary. Her diary. And I'm THE BEST at spotting who likes who. It would have never occured to me that she liked THIS guy. Apparently, she knows how to make the picture look different then the picture actually does. Sadly, this other guy supposivly like someone else, but let's just say I know better. She's only been around for a year and a half so....it's interesteing and I was wondering if I could help the situation out a little.... ;P Please tell me what you'd do.
2006-08-28 09:28:37 · 9 answers · asked by Cool it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People we are like best friends. If you just found a random book lying around, you'd read it too right? There was no name on it. she is very smart and sneaky. I didn't figure it out til later on after reading...sheesh, I'm not that shameless.
2006-08-28 09:42:25 · update #1
Let her tell him on her own. You might upset her if you tell the guy witout her permission. Just let it happen whenever she is ready to tell him.
2006-08-28 09:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too involved with it, I mean there's probably a reason why this has been kept a secret, BUT what you could do, is if your friends with the both of them have a bunch of friends all go out and do something fun one night, maybe you, another friend and the other two. Then they will get to hang out, get to know each other a little better and get to talking. You'd be helping in a way but not too much to force anything.
2006-08-28 16:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, don't mingle in other people's emotion and feelings. What are you doing with other people's diary in the first place!?
She needs to confront those feelings and have the courage to face him with it. Without it it might cause emotional damage since she's very shy and probably not ready to even face her feelings for him.
Also, even if you gotten them together, the fact that she's shy will not help them communicate in the relationship; which will result in a short live love. Its just not gonna be a happy ending, and when that happens she'll blame you for pushing her into something she wasn't prepare for.
Its ultimately up to her to make the move, not yours. Leave it alone and find something else to do with your spare time.
2006-08-28 16:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have no business looking in someone's diary. Second of all, this is really none of you business. Let them figure things out for themselves, and worry about yourself.
I'm not trying to be rude, but trust me on this, if you interfere the egg will fall on your face.
2006-08-28 16:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she she likes u but is good at hiding it and u like her too,common, let the cat out of the bag.Its no big deal.
2006-08-28 16:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by hajo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get them together. Go out somewhere in a group and then just sorta disappear leaving them two alone together.
2006-08-28 16:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by dimkaluv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother, he's happy right. She acts happy right. Why would it be your business anyway! And why would you be looking at her diary anyway. Your not the match maker ...are you?
2006-08-28 16:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expose her, and try to get the whole thing on video tape.
2006-08-28 16:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask.
2006-08-28 16:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋