By miss right I mean. THE ONE woman God has chosen for me from the start. The one who has all the qualities and atributes not only of a Proverbs 31 gal but also the things I seek and desire in a woman and wife. Yes I'm the type of guy this girl or woman will desire and I have a lot to offer. But I still wonder does she exist or am I waiting for nothing? Maybe it's a matter of faith here. What do you think?
2006-08-28 09:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by dave_83501 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you so desperate? Have you not thought about the fact that God wants you to focus on him right now? If you can't love God more than anything or anybody else than you will never be able to love your wife fully. Thats why right now instead of trying to find someone i'm working on my relationship with God and i desire to love him more than anything or anybody. Also ask yourself this...am i someone worth marrying? You need to become the kind of person worth marrying. Stop worrying about meeting mis right and work on becoming mr right. Please make the most of being single. For most people the single years are only a season and one day your going to want them back. Just think of all the things you can do now that you won't be able to do so easily once your married and you have a wife to care for.
Also keep in mind that not everyone is called to marriage. DON'T make marriage your idol. It seems that you are doing that. Marriage isn't the number one thing in life...serving God and others is more important and if God gives you someone great..but don't sit around waiting for it to happen...serve God and leave all of this up to him. I speak from experience. I wasted 6 years thinking i was gonna marry this guy and i could have been doing so many other things but instead i wasted so much precious time. Please don't make that same mistake. God is a jealous God and everytime that we make something or some one else the focus he won't tolerate it. Marriage is a serious thing...don't rush into...enjoy the ride...enjoy being single and if it's God's will he will give you someone. Jer. 29:11
2006-08-28 09:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem sounds like your expectations are too high. No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws, weather they are physical or not. There is always going to be something you dont like about someone. If you constantly seek out those flaws and reject any woman found to have any, you will never be happy and will never have a wife. Thats what love is, overlooking someones flaws because you love them and want to make them happy and because they make you happy. Not wishing they were different. I'm sure you have flaws of your own but really wouldnt appreciated it if your next date pointed them out all night and demanded you change them.
2006-08-28 09:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real sweet guy and I'm sure there's the perfect one for you out there don't lose hope. Sooner or later she'll come to you when you least expect it. Have full faith. God bless.
2006-08-28 09:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are a small number of highly compatable people for each of us. I used to believe in soul mates but I don't anymore. I think it gets hard for people to wait for one of those rare highly compatable people, so many people just settle. That leads eventually to misery. I think you have to wait as long as it takes. Continue to grow, ask the universe for your equal. You will attract what you are, so become the person you'd like to meet. It sounds trite but I think it works.
2006-08-28 16:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No such thing but then again that's me, if we all thing and act the same way then everything was for nothing so If you think she's out there than do what you must do to find her. hell, she could be only a couple of feet away, then again she isn't. it's all up to your own faith
2006-08-28 09:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it could have a lot to do with faith hugh?? Never ever thought about that. I wonder sometimes too about my mate...lately I've been feeling like believing in love is like believing in the damn tooth fairy...
2006-08-28 09:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. a lot of people say that there is someone out there for everyone but the world is a huge place and there are a lot of people, so how do we find them? i guess it all comes down to the person that you meet if you decide to like them or not.
2006-08-28 09:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
god has someone for everybody and that girl may be right in your face so you need to make sure not to take love for granted because once its gone its hard to get it back but hold on becasue she coming or maybe you should go to her.
2006-08-28 09:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by MonieJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is someone for everyone and you just have to be patient. sometimes it takes longer for some then it does others. for all you know you may have already met her but it's just not your time to be together. have faith. she is out there looking for you too.
2006-08-28 09:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Red 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is out there some where waiting for you too!! I think that there is someone out there for everyone!! I found my right you will too!!
2006-08-28 09:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋