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I like a boy that I used to go to school with in elemnetry and we sorta got reunited a couple days ago, and I like him and I think he's cute, but my friend says if I go out with him( she likes him too) that everyone he dated befor will come "after me" and my basic question is why is it so hard to find a boyfriend?? I mean I'm pretty (lol i least I THINK I AM) and I love to laugh if you ever saw me I would probably never say anything cause either i'de be too shy or I'de be laughing :D So , why IS IT so hard to find a boyfriend?

2006-08-28 09:22:36 · 24 answers · asked by Blue.Purple.Pink. 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

24 answers

Be brave and talk to guys it'll get easier.

2006-08-28 09:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by coolkidd2379 2 · 0 0

Maybe none of the boys around you are good enough for you. I'm sure you are a smart, pretty young woman & just know that you can have fun with or without a boyfriend. Sometimes they are more trouble than they are worth. lol. Don't get with some jerk just b/c you want a boyfriend. Wait 'til the right guy comes along. You are worth it! Until then have fun with life! Listen to the song called "Single" by Natasha Bedingfield, you might like it : ) have a great day!

2006-08-28 09:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 5 · 0 0

You have time. You just have to wait for the right one to come along. You sound pretty young and believe me, its not the most important thing in the world at that age. Get yourself straight, find out what you really like in a guy and he will come along one day.

And if your friend likes this guy to, she is probably telling you people will come after you so you do not date him. She wants to be with him. If he has dated so many people before, there must be something wrong with him if he cant keep 1 girl lol... You dont need that.

2006-08-28 09:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0 0

those other ppl that answered your question r stupid. imm not really going to answer your question either, just rant a little too. y is it so hard to find a gf? EVERY girl i have met has a boyfriend. I've asked girls out all the time and they ALL have boyfriends. I have also seen them with their boyfriends, so i know they rnt lying. y is there so many girls who have boyfriends but not as many guys have gf?

2006-08-28 09:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

may seem like a mean answer but it's the truth!!!
Your looking for one!
sucks yes i know but if you just live your life the way you want to as an individual then your parnter will meet up with you!
you'll never find what your looking for if you look for it!
emotionally at least!
Good luck
Mad luv

2006-08-28 09:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ill admit, i was in the same sit. you are and it wasnt easy getting out of it. i had to stop listening to what other ppl said and follow my instincs. i know it sounds stupid but its true! if she likes him o-well you saw him first you have hands first. hes youres for the taking. take it. and its not hard finding a boyfriend... its hard finding the right boyfriend.

2006-08-28 09:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by marcella 2 · 0 0

me too. usually im not shy tho. wen i was little i was.

i dont no why the guys are like that. they turn down or dont notice the pretty girls. who would really be good for them.

and me personally i dont think that all the girls would come after you. and shes probly saying that bcuz she doesnt want you to get him if she likes him too. its all jelously.

i say go for it.and ask him out.

2006-08-28 09:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by babe27 2 · 0 0

well look at it this way if other girls are comming after u cuz they all went out with him its cuz there jealous! and i really dont know why its so hard 4 u 2 find a bf just be yourself!

2006-08-28 09:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by i love Amanda kendall 2 · 0 0

You need to take what she said and forget about it. Go for this boy anyway and let him take care of the girls he has dated before you. You go for him and you have fun dating him. These other girls are just jeolouse and thats it..... blessed be.......

2006-08-28 10:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0 0

Don't go searching for a boyfriend. When you least expect it a good guy will find you...

2006-08-28 09:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by shiftcomma3 2 · 0 0

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