I am getting married pretty soon, why am i so nervous?
2006-08-28 09:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by dimpens97 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am getting married, why am i so nervous?
2006-08-28 09:24:19 · update #1
I am getting married, why am i so nervous?
I'm A GUY
2006-08-28 09:24:40 · update #2
it's normal to be nervous...everyone gets pre-jitters! you'll be fine! it's gonna be one of the happiest days of your life! :o) And also CONGRATS to you!
2006-08-28 15:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by pepsigrlfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to feel nervous, you are about to make the most biggest decision you will ever have to make. Try calming down a bit first! Make sure that everything is organised for the big day and have a couple of glasses of wine the night before (no more then 2 though you dont want a hangover). Trust me the day will be worth all the stress, worry, money and nervousnes! On the morning of my wedding day i was sick! But when i got to the alter and saw my hubby to be, all the nervous feelings inside me went away and i was actually exited! Trust me all you need to do is calm down a bit! You will be fine when you see him standing there waiting for you, you will even forget about all the guest being there while you exchange your vows!
Good Luck and may you have a long and happy marriage!
Sorry only just saw that you are a guy. Still hope my advise helps!
2006-08-28 16:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE IF YOU WERE NOT NERVOUS,
IT WOULD LNOT BE A BIG DEAL,
AND IF THIS IS NOT A BIG DEAL, YIKES,
your whole life is changing, and you are going to make it official, not just living together, as a rehearsel, you are going for the "real enchilada" AND responsibilities, are going with that,
Things about yourself you will be changing, and learning and growing, and learning again,, for ever,,
that is reason to be nervous,
What if?
WHAT IF THAT ?
those what if's and choices you are making and will make , SOME WONT WORK, SOME WILL
SOME WILL GET SO MESSED UP, SOME WILL BE DISASTEROUS,
SOME WILL BE BETTER THAN YOU IMAGINED,
or better than what happened to your married friends,
YOU ARE ABOUT TO GO ON A WHOLE NEW JOURNEY, ALMOST LIKE TO OUTER SPACE..LOL
BECAUSE YOU are unique, and although trillions of humans have married, and we see it all around us,
Your marriage is different from all the rest, because you and you mate are unlike any one else,
NOW THAT IS EXCITING,
AND CHALLENGING,
and i think you are allowed to be nervous,
SO ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE, YOUR WEDDING, AND YOUR LIFE,
I WISH YOU THE BEST,,
SINCERELY
2006-08-28 16:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 reasons, either you're getting what's called the jitters, or cold feet. You're about to make a major adjustment to your life, plus you're about to spend an entire day where most of the attention of the crowd will be on you and your bride. Many people aren't comfortable with this idea, hence feelings of nervousness, or jitters, or cold feet, or whatever you want to call it. However, if you're seriously questioning if you're doing the right thing, if you feel overwhelmingly nervous, or even experience feelings of dread or resignation, then I would seriously reconsider getting married at this time, to the person you're marrying. I would say the chances of this being the latter reason are fairly slim, it's probably just your regular, pre-wedding jitters, that all married people had before they got married. It's normal. good luck to you.
2006-08-28 19:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to calm down. Most girls get nervous for 2 reasons. One, they are not sure they want to get married, or 2 they are worried about the day, and things going wrong. If you love him, calm down, and relax. It will go fine. It is your day, enjoy it.
2006-08-28 16:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets nervous it is normal your not the only one maybe its just becasue you want everything right stop thinking about it so much if you two love each other it will work!!
2006-08-28 16:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because getting married is a very big step. its normal. But you may want to evaluate why you are getting married...love?, pregnancy? etc. if its not the right reasons you are probably not going to be as happy as youd hoped. hope it works out and congratulations.
2006-08-28 16:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down! Its absolutely natural to be nervous. Just know what you are doing.
2006-08-28 16:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're nervous because YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED.
It's cold feet. It's completely normal. Don't worry about it.
2006-08-28 22:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be nervous....you could be like me and find out on the morning of your wedding that you were pregnant!
2006-08-28 16:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋