This guy I've been dating for awhile has started to do the fade away from me. (Meaning getting really distant and not being consistant with plans and really wishy washy) We are not a couple so if he is seeing another girl I have no place to get in his face about it. I would rather he just tell me that there is someone else then be wishy washy. Anyways, we have not looked each other in the face for three weeks, We talk on the phone and he says he's just busier then ever at work. He keeps apologizing but not doing anything to change things. It is sooo funny how he spends his weekends with his friends and i haven't seen him. I don't know how to feel because it is not familiar territory to me. Usually communication has not been a problem w/ other guys i've dated. He knows we are not psending any time together so I do not need to reiterate it. If I did I feel he'll just start doing it to make me happy and not because he really wants to. Should I just cut my loses and move on?
2006-08-28 09:15:12 · 10 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friend ,sounds like to me he is just keeping you on the back burner ,if he went ???? out with friends when he could of been with you ,yes I would move on then watch his tail start trying to win you back ,tell him you dont play those games ,move on now before you get hurt .if he is doing this stuff now as you grow more comfortable with each other it will be worse .I hope this helps you, deserve to be treated better .date and have fun .
2006-08-28 09:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him too much. Date other people as much as possible. And when your guy does start to come around, please don't break plans with other hotties just to be with him...please don't!!! Don't call him for a couple of days...I knw this will be hard but see if he'll call you and when and if he does talk for a brief moment(maybe 5min.) then tell him you gotta go and you'll talk to him later...dont be too specific about why you gotta go nor dont tell him when you'll call him back...leave him hanging and wondering about your next move....he's gotten too damn comfortable with ya...but you can get your power back if you work it girl....dont worry bout the other chick...you are your own competition, there's no one quite like you love.
2006-08-28 09:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop showing that you care so much, stop showing him that you want something, see how he feels. See if he calls you and trys to pursuit something with you such as plans. If he really likes you or is into you he will wonder why you all of a sudden stopped talking to him and will call to see what happen.
Good Luck !! Dont forget theres pleanty of other guys out there. Dont bother to stress about it
2006-08-28 09:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first sign that you should move on is that you've been dating a while but there is no commitment. He's just keeping you on the side for when he has nothing else going on. Cut your loses and find someone who wants to have you as their gf.
2006-08-28 09:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would stop calling him and see what happens. If he calls, then he is showing interest, if he does not call, let it go and carry on with your life. Don't waste precious time waiting for something to happen that may never happen. Go have some fun, even if it's alone. Good luck to ya!!! GaryT
2006-08-28 09:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This feels like a extreme difficulty. it must be something simple like quite some labor stress on at modern or he ought to easily be drained and in choose of a few relax. i recognize one man or woman has suggested that it must be that he's having an affair, it truly is conceivable yet in my adventure even as someone is having an affair they develop into more beneficial loving to there better half to cover up there own guilt. i imagine the ideal difficulty that you ought to do must be to sit down down and confer with him, clarify why the way you're feeling and attempt to handle mutually what your issues are and how you may fix them. you'll discover that's how you may manage those themes. when you've each thing worked out positioned aside a nighttime that you'll enable him imagine is a nighttime on the city even as in extremely what you'd be doing is installation a captivating nighttime to tempt him lower back to mattress. positioned on something that you recognize will stress him wild and performance some bottles of wine / beverages waiting and performance the completed nighttime exhibiting him what he has been lacking.
2016-11-28 02:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are not a couple, continue dating other people. If he's doing it, why shouldn't you?
2006-08-28 09:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on..Stop calling him...and chances are he won't call you either. I've been through it....happened that way for me.
2006-08-28 09:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-28 09:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by italiano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
or ask him how does he feel about u
2006-08-28 09:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋