Okay, I'm 23 years old, and left a 7 year relationship a couple of months ago. So, I pretty much missed the whole dating thing. I have a date Friday night with this guy I met a little while ago. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now, just having fun for now. A couple of other guys have given me their numbers also. My question is, is it "okay" to go out with more than one guy? (without being considered trashy) This stuff is all new to me, and I tend to be a little clueless sometimes.
2006-08-28 09:12:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your situation, I think it is good that you want to get out and just have a little fun and enjoy yourself. There is nothing wrong with dating. Simply because you are now dating does not mean you are obligated to date just one person. Just be up front with whoever you meet and let them know 'hey I am not interested in anything long term right now' and if they are ok with that, then cool. If not, then move on to someone else because life is too short. Enjoy yourself and be safe! :-)
2006-08-28 09:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!! It is not okay how would you like it if you were with a guy and he's been dating some other girls at the same time and his pitiful and pathetic excuse was I was clueless and wasn't looking for a serious relationship? Just do one guy at a time and make up an excuse for the others and if you don't like a guy just drop him and go on to the next. Or some of them you can just be friends with.
2006-08-28 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by walmart_parakeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 23? and have to ask if its ok to date more than one guy? Come on girl, get with it how else are you gonna find the one and only. Just don't tell them all that they are special to you and be honest about playing the field. Chances are they are too.
If you respect yourself and them, chances are no one will think you are trashy unless of course you are.
2006-08-28 16:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea cause you don't want to get into another 7 year relationship before you try out at least a hand full of people. I mean the more people you mean the more you find out about what type of peoples qualities you prefer!
2006-08-28 16:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who went out with 2 or 3 guys at one time. She told them all and they had no problem with it. She just went out to see if they were good potentials for her.
There is nothing wrong with going out as friends with more than one person as long as they know how you feel.
I couldn't personally do it as I would be overwhelmed.
Just have fun and respect for each other.
2006-08-28 16:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are going out with several people doesn't mean you have to sleep with them. Enjoy being single. Have a few dinners on somebody else and see what is out there there is nothing wrong with being a confident social woman.
2006-08-28 16:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so as long as your not committed to someone. But, let your dates know that you're not interested in any serious relationships so you can skip the drama. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-28 16:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, dating is not a relationship, having multpile realtionships is wrong, but dating mulitple people isn't, when you date your trying people out, to maximize yout time you have to date mulitple people, plus your a girl so its free or at least very cheep, so enjoy the hell out of it.
2006-08-28 16:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok to go out with friends, but not date more than one person and you shouldnt care what other people think but if you do date more than one person its going to make you seem like a slutt and you dont want people to think that.
2006-08-28 20:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by lil sexy aka diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is see hun as long as your up front with the dude and don't
anything out in the beginning it's all good.
and times have changed a woman can now do as guys do and still have class
2006-08-28 16:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋