iv been going out with my b/f for just over 4 months. the other week he went on holiday with his parents for 2 weeks, all the time he was away he never contacted me. he arrived home yesterday and still hasnt spoke 2 me. i know its obvious he isnt really interested in me but everytime i try to brake it up and finish it he tells me how beautiful i am and that im an amazing person and we never seem to split up.
what can i say / do to make him realise it really is over? i know ill be upset when we finish but i think its for the best
2006-08-28 09:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to finish with anyone is to tell them straight out. practise this. you had your chance, you lost. ITS OVER.
2006-08-28 09:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by fool4lovin. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hun to be honest i think some of it is your own fault (i am not trying ti be rude, i am giving a genuine answer). Every time you brake up with him he controls with those beautiful words which are very hard to resist. I mean when he says them just turn around and go as if you dont really care anymore, as if he does not mean anything to you. And if he tryies to contact you either dont answer the phone or answer it and put it down without speaking. After few months he will understand the problem and will try to fix it (i mean he will be there for you more often, and will contact you and so). He will know that it will be very hard to be trusted again and will try the hardest he can to be trusted again. So after few weeks or maybe a month it will be up to you to take him back or forget about him completely. But if after your break up he does not even contact you or try to get you back i am sorry to say that it means you have been used, (and if after some time he apperes by surprise and wants you back) in which case you should never take him back even if he begs at the front of everyone. I hope this helped and good luck hun!!!
2006-08-28 09:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Angel From The Hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine had two years of agony with a guy like this, a gentle bully, very very insidious and manipulative. He drove her crazy, now she hates him so much, and she finally ended it with him.
Well, if he doesn't want to hear how you don't want to see him anymore, I suggest going out and meeting another guy and snogging in a public place. He'll get the hint then.
2006-08-28 09:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i'd just ignore him the way that he's ignored you for the past 2 weeks.I'm sure he'll take the hint in the end.After the way he's treated you does he really deserve anymore of your time?Good luck and best wishes whatever you do :o)
2006-08-28 09:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that its over for good coz its 4 the best and try to avoid him as best u can,im sure hell get the message
2006-08-28 09:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by mizz1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say its over and explain to him why and if he doesnt get it get a restraining order
2006-08-28 09:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋