How can Christian men control themselves knowing that OTHER MEN can look at their women? This drives me insane! I'm really insecure and we all know that we can't trust men or women to control themselves when they see skin! C'mon people, let's cover every square inch of our bodies! It prevents lust and stuff!
DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
2006-08-28 09:00:25 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
you have serious problem. live and let live.
2006-08-28 09:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Purple Rain 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why do Muslim women allow their men to go out into public without covering up?
How can Muslim women control themselves knowing that OTHER WOMEN can look at their men?
This drives me insane! I'm really insecure
(yes, you must be, I genuinely feel sorry for you that your sexual urges plague you like this. Control will come with maturity)
and we all know that we can't trust men or women to control themselves when they see skin!
(Really? I thought most of us can be trusted to do just that most of the time)
C'mon people, let's cover every square inch of our bodies! It prevents sunburn and skin cancer (but not lust and stuff because lust will always find a way)
2006-08-28 09:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by tagette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that you have not really thought about before writing it. You are stating that all women who do not cover up and men that allow the women to dress how they want are all Christian. Christianity is not the only religion that believes in freedom of human beings which is what we all are.
I am not religious but if I was I would not let a man dictate what I can and cannot do whatever my religion unless God himself came down to me and told me that is what I must do to get into Heaven.
Men who have their women cover up are insecure like yourself and my belief is that it has nothing to do with religion it is mens lack of self control.
Oh and skin isn't the turn on its the person wearing it!
2006-08-28 09:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Emma-Kate 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because seeing a woman where short sleeved shirts, etc., it's not a big deal. Because of this, seeing arms and faces isn't enough to cause lust. By the way, if you're wife can't be trusted to go outside without her elbows showing, you have some serious marital troubles.
2006-08-28 09:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Christian woman have the choice to follow God and be discreet, or not. But Christian males are at least smart enough to know that women who are half naked are not the cause of our lust, That would be our own fault. Stop blaming others for YOUR SINS. Come home and be born again. We'd love to have you back.
Min. Will
2006-08-31 07:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The West is a free country. Men and women are equal.
I am a woman, and NO man tells me what to wear. The same as i would not tell a man what to wear.
Women fought long and hard for equal rights... in Britain, the suffragettes gave their lives for women to have the vote.
Making women cover up in burkas, etc is (in my view) is not about sex, but all about men feeling they have power and control.
LIKE YOU SAID, YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM... and this is clearly why you think it is right to cover up and deny women their rights and freedoms. Ultimately, you are afraid of women and see them as a threat.
2006-08-28 09:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control, you want to control your woman?? this is the problem, Chritian men dont need to or want to 'control' their woman. If you think that women or men cannot control thier lust when they see skin you are so deluded!!!!of course we can, god its just skin!!! its not an invertation to have sex with anybody!!
If you cant control yourself around women who have a sleveless top or whatever, just because you come to quick does not mean that everybody is the same!!!
God you need to learn more about the real world - instead of the religious one!
2006-08-28 09:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know much about psychology. If you make men wonder what is under all those layers of clothing, the challenge of finding out is certain to make them try harder.
The majority of humans can control themselves, and I find it pretty insulting that any religion suggests otherwise. If not covering up and allowing a man to dictate what i can or cant wear means im going to hell, ill take my chances.
2006-08-28 09:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Problem is that Christian women are free to do what they like. They wear the trousers! They also assume that men can control themselves. We may be wrong, but that's our problem. I cover myself in Muslim countries, as a matter of respect. I don't expect to be groped by men in Europe who aren't used to the way European women dress.
2006-08-28 09:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by cymry3jones 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't Muslim man cover themselves from head to toes? In Europe it's very common for women to sunbathe topless and the men there aren't run around the pool grabbing and touching women's breast like some escaped convict. Why should women cover themselves just because a man has no control over his dick? Were you recently released from jail or are you just some horny teenager?
2006-08-28 09:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by L'teefaw 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give me a freakin break....... I didn't realize how weak some men were. Many people don't 'lust' over every body they see. Attraction is the person.... I've been married for many many years and appreciate handsome men and good lookin women - never cheated, never attracted, never inclined to...... Maybe you should question why you are so shallow?
2006-08-28 09:06:57 · answer #11 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋