lmfao.
2006-08-28 08:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHOULD I HAVE SECKS WITH MY BF? IM NERVOUS.
2006-08-28 09:04:16 · update #1
STILL A VIRGIN AND PROUD!!!!!!! AND IM 19 YRS OLD. im planning on saving myself for marriage.
2006-08-28 09:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I lost my virginity to my soon-to-be-husband.
We were 16 at the time (best friends since the day we were born, had cribs next to each other in the hospital, joined-to-the-hip all our childhood, fell in love at 13), and we had been talking about it for months. Discussed our fantasys in detail, things we'd like to do...everything we could think of. When the time finally came around, we went ahead and got a room at a hotel. He bought 3 dozen roses, and scattered 2 of them (they were white, symbolizing purity) of them all over the bed and floor. He took the other dozen, which were red, and scattered them all into a vanilla bubble bath, which we then took and cuddled in. Had over 20 candles lit all over the place, made it back to the bed, and spent all day loving on each other. We exchanged wedding rings and said vows to each other. We consider that the day we got married...allot of people might find that insane...but in all honesty, thats what happens when you make love for the first time. You consumate a marriage.
Its been almost 3 years since then...and every time still feels like the first time.
ANYWAYS -
If you are both in a commited relationship, and are looking at marriage within a year or two, then I think its right. But if you are really young, havn't been together that long, or are just doing it to do it, then don't. Sex is a precious gift...in many cultures, you save yourself for your wedding night. Thats why sex was created.
So remember, when you make love for the first time, you are consumating a marriage - not just hooking up for a one time fling.
Make sure you know what you are getting into before you take that step. Once you do, you leave your childhood behind forever...
2006-08-28 18:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 09:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by brucybaby 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was 18
2006-08-28 09:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least wait until you can spell it. Even then I have to question whether or not the world would want your off spring running around.
2006-08-28 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sam Iam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha secks? havent had that lol havent had sex either imma wait till i think its right
2006-08-28 09:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never had secks! come to think of it... I've never heard of secks!
2006-08-28 09:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Julie G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
none of your bussiness is my answer
why do you care
that is personal stuffz and if you don't like it that people won't answer you than to bad your the idiot that can't for one spell it
and two is stupid enough to accualy thing people would answer this question
with the REAL answer!
2006-08-28 09:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never had secks.... lots of sex tho!
2006-08-28 09:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
13 years old and it was GLORIOUS, btw my partner was 21, and it was sooooooo goooooood. Better to have someone older who knows what to do than with anothe virgin.
2006-08-28 09:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by littletimmyjohnson 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋