good time and I asked her out again at the end of our 1st date and but when I called that day for our 2nd and left her a message and she didn't call back so I had to call her again. Anyway, to make long story short, I met up with her for 2nd date but her attitude was very somber and not as upbeat as the first date. On the 1st date when we were kissing she told me she wanted to take time before going to far and I respected that but on the 2nd date she seemed to be pulling back even more. So I'm confused now and she didn't answer or return my call recently to thank her for the date. I have a feeling I lost her respect because I might have came on too strong for her. So are there any sincere advice as to what I can do here to salvage this with her is or do you think it's too late? Sincere advice please. Thanks in advance.
2006-08-28 08:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So the question here is how would you feel about a guy who came on too strong and you feel overwhelmed but you liked him from the beginning. Would you still like to hear from a guy like that again and what could he do to fix this situation?
2006-08-28 09:00:26 · update #1
well there stud!! I would hate to say that it could be too late! but that's my views if people don't like me for who i am screw them! I am going to be me and if i have a strong personality and someone doesn't like that well guess it wasn't a match... You are just taring yourself apart! I personal would ask her this to see if there is anything to work on our out!
Hey did you want a 3rd date? no don't give me some bs just tell me straight up! if you don't that's cool and all that maybe we can just hang out every know and then but if not i'll forget about you!
that simple but hard to do! so good luck!
Mad luv
2006-08-28 08:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your ok...just fall back for awhile, dont call her for a couple of days maybe even a week. Then make contact with her, leave a mess. if she doesnt pick up and leave it at that...dont call her more than once. If she likes you even a tad bit she'll call you back with her upbeat personality in hand....she's not gone trust me. I do the same things to guys that come on a little too strong @ 1st. Just reassure her that shes not the only one your pursuing.
2006-08-28 09:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my advice is don't phone her or anything anymore let her contact you, if she can't make the effort to let you know where you stand then she isn't worth your time and she probably isn't interested. If you keep phoning her she may get annoyed and think you are too needy which isn't an attractive quality. She may just be a bit scared of getting close to someone else especially if she has been hurt before, if she wants to see you again then let her do the asking, you've done your bit.
2006-08-28 09:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by missy minx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would lay back a little bit if you think she is having second thoughts. Maybe just give her a little space. If she really is still interetsed, maybe she will call you. Next time you talk to her, apologize to her if she thinks you did come on a little strong and tell her you are willing to take it slow. Hope this helps!
2006-08-28 08:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by THE DYNAMO FROM OHIO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn"t have kissed her on the first date. She might feel as though she went to far as to kiss you, and she might feel like you don't like her anymore. You need to talk to her to see what is really wrong.
2006-08-28 08:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by bronco_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre trying too hard, dump her and move on, she will come crawling back when she sees you with someone else.
She sounds like a prick teaser.
2006-08-28 08:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes gone man sorrry
2006-08-28 08:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by MAtt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother ?
Move on....N-E-X-T !!!
2006-08-28 08:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 09:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sweepy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋