I'm 13 and he's 21?!?

Question

We're only friends, but we love eachother a lot n he sed he's wait until i'm 18 (he'll b 26) what do you guys think?

thanks xx

Tee he ain't goin 2 jail if we wait till im 18. we love eachother.

WE LOVE EACHOTHER.

okay how come everyone always says "age aint nothin but a number" but for me that sint true?

Answer 1

i think its cute..♥
im 12. my bfs 20=]
we love eachother..
my parents know that..

Answer 2

I don't think he'll wait.
and you shouldn't even be talking to the guy. And HE should KNOW better than to be so "friendly" with you, so much that you'd say he's a friend BUT you "love each other alot". Who are you fooling?

break it off completely and start hanging around with kids more your own age or there's sure to be trouble. if you don't, you risk ruining both your lives and you're young - you're gonna live with the consequences of this for a very long time. Either this guy is gonna plug some other girls while he's waiting for you, or he's gonna do that and try to convince you that you should become his lover... all in secret, of course... it's illegal and he'd be a criminal to try that, do you understand where you're heading with this whole thing?

Answer 3

Well...that's a huge age difference. especially since you're 13. first of all, if i were you, i'd try to forget about this guy until then. date around a little. find a guy ur age or someone a little older than you, but before you get into a relationship with someone that many years older than you, date around a little and get some experience, but for now, my advice is to kind of find someone new until your 18. if this guy REALLY likes you, he'll wait for you, but for now, date some other guys and then see if you really want him.

Answer 4

hes just a perv trying to get down your pants

he'll never out the drive for kiddie porn
if its not you it'll be someone else.

how would feel if asyou said he waited till you were 18 and then found out that he was still intersted in 13 yr olds?

after all you were hi first "LOVE" and he'll always try to remember it -

does not sound liek a good idea - sorry

Answer 5

I say just be friends "with benefits". Sleep, yes young lady that means have sex, with him behind everyone's back, that way he doesn't have to be embarrased about dating a 13 yo, he gets the sex that he is really just after anyways, and you keep out of trouble for dating an older guy.

Answer 6

I think you need to find someone your age. You are flirting with a bad situation. I would hate to see something bad happen to you. You need someone no older than 15. Believe me, 21 year old men want sex and they are not going to wait 5 years for it.

Answer 7

age is a big thing when you are only 13. people like him are called pedophiles and by the time you are 18 you'll be to old for him. he is telling you whatever he thinks you need to hear to get in your pants.

Answer 8

Are you saying that you will put your life on hold until you are 18 to be with this guy? I am sure he will not do the same for you sweety. Does your mom know about this?

Answer 9

I think you need to find a boy closer to your own age. He's way too old for you...I would never allow my daughter to date someone as old as that.

You are no where close to being mature or knowing what love is all about...

Sorry, but it's the truth.

Answer 10

That would be most impressive - I am currently 25 and my fiance is 19 - so it is possible.

Nevertheless, I have to say that both of your ages are when a lot of things change. It isn't necessarily anyone's fault, it's just your mind and views maturing.

I am not saying it couldn't work, in fact, I am cheering for you, but please be mindful of the legal ramifications and such.

Good luck!

Answer 11

they will say anything to get what they want from you. so you should really leave him alone because aint no man waiting that long for you. you are too young and inexperianced to be in a relationship. i was 13 once, i lived ahead of my years and it didnt do any good for me.