2006-08-28 08:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
First thing first: Have you talk it out with this person regarding marriage?
If you have, then you have 2 choices.
One, stick around with this person and not get marry at all (or, wait until he/she find someone to marry, obviously it won't be you!).
Two, you should find someone else.
The bottom line is this: Life is too short to spend with someone that cannot fulfill your needs. If your purpose in a relationship is to get marry in the end, then you should be with someone who has the same set of mind. Trust me, this will make your life happier than it is right now.
If you haven't ask or discuss with that person, then you should do that. Find a good time to open this issue. Open your heart to him/her and talk it out. Trust me, to talk with an open heart with the one you love, will not be regretted in the future. Closure is always better than not knowing at all.
Either way, you should always remember this: if you decided to be in a relationship, it should not be for any other person but you. Basically, you are in it for your happiness and if you're not happy, you cannot make anyone happy, including yourself.
Love is all very good indeed, but make sure that the love you give will get return by someone who give answer to your dreams, whatever it maybe.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-28 08:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by camellia_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dance a jig, because you only get that lucky a few times in your life. Now that you've come to that realization, you can kick him to the curb.
2006-08-28 15:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want marriage and you are sure he is not gonna ask.....walk. Plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-08-28 15:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that will marry you for who you are?? and appreciates you??
2006-08-28 15:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Trent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank your lucky stars...can you imagine the honeymoon...'wsid?'
2006-08-28 15:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by spike missing debra m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else?
2006-08-28 15:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by Terry Legendary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋