i was just wondering if a guy can be too touchy... cause i got slight ADD so i like to keep my hands busy all the time so i'm always touching my g/f, not like groping her but if i get bored ill tickle her back or massage her hands, sholders...
would this bother any of you girls?
2006-08-28 08:27:52 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its cute to be touchy feely but it depends on the girl, i have a couple friends who are bothered by being touched too much, and me on the other hand i think its sweet that my man always wants to be touching me in some way... It depends on the person, you should pay attention to her reactions when you touch her... you know like if she tenses up, gets quiet, pushes you off, anything that could say shes uncomfortable... then again, you could always ask her...
2006-08-28 08:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the girl.
Personally I love the attention. Just hand holding or a shoulder massage is really nice and it is always good to know that I can get all that attention. However, there are times that I need a little space and that much touching and hugging drives me crazy.
I would say ask your girlfriend how she feels about it. She should be able to be fairly honest and if it bothers her she will let you know.
2006-08-28 08:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by jane9715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be touchy feely, but watch it too much in mixed company, and make sure that your not being too clingy. But tickling and back rubbing, and the massages are perfectly ok.
2006-08-28 08:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by kimmysue62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hadn't of told me ahead of time and was just randomly doing it then it would be weird as hell. But then if you do tell me and its just something as nice as tickling thats fine. Just as long as it doesn't escalate into something more serious.
2006-08-28 08:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a very touchy feely kinda person myself so no it wouldn't bother me at all.
2006-08-28 08:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see too much of a problem, unless your gf says that it's annoying. girls like massages, at least i do, and i always like it when my bf is making body contact w/ me. i see it as a sign of affection
2006-08-28 08:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by lady of the piano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wished you were my boyfriend. I love getting attention. not from everyone but from my boyfriend. If all men were like that,hmmmmmmmm......... that'll be the day
2006-08-28 08:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that that should bother anyone. There are things that can get on my nerves but those aren't it. So go ahead feel free to do whatever u please...
2006-08-28 08:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. Sounds fine to me.
2006-08-28 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sound like a wacko
2006-08-28 08:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋