The girl I like stopped replying to my text messages. We used to txt back and forth for about 3 days. Suddenly, she doesn't text back. Is it a probable sign that she no longer interested in me? and when I asked her to go out with me she said yes, but she asked me if it is ok to move it tomorrow, and then the next day, she said she can't because her brother is coming and that they might go out. But she promised to me that we will go out sometime. Is she giving me mixed signals? I feel that she is but I think there is a higher percentage of her not being interested in me anymore. Do girls get annoyed when you txt them often? What should I do, I really like this girl?!!
2006-08-28 08:11:57 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think - leave her alone, it sounds to me like she's not really interested but doesn't want to hurt your feelings...Just stop texting her & if she wants to talk, she'll get in touch with you.
And YES, we do get annoyed if a guy is too pushy, besides it's just not attractive...
2006-08-28 08:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl then show her and everyone else around you that you are confident and secure in yourself. Text her again after a few days just to see if she might reply then. If not, then move on. "Murphy's Law" says she won't text you back until you have moved on, so you could try to appear as if you're moving on which might make her try to "reel you in" again.
Maybe in some ways Women are like Cats, men are like Dogs.
One thing for sure - all women are attracted to men who are positive, upbeat, confident, secure, patient, and honest. A good sense of humor is a big plus. Often, the things that a woman "reads" from a man is little stuff like the way you carry yourself in public, the disposition you appear to have - if you show signs of insecurity or weakness even in the way you walk and talk, she will pick up on that. Therefore, you can't let on how obsessed you are with this girl. You can't let her ignoring you get you down. Consider these things as tests by potential mates, and you will be tested in ways you aren't supposed to recognize as tests. If a woman's attention span is no more than three days, maybe she's not quite the woman who impressed you so much when you first met her.
It's safe to assume there's much more going on than meets your eyes, some good, some not so good. She might not be texting you back because of a thousand possible reasons you have no right to know - she might be in the middle of a breakup with some other guy - she might be travelling somewhere on business, her brother really COULD be coming into town and they have plans that will keep her away from her cell - maybe it isn't even charged up. She could be moving into a new apartment... the list goes on and on. You have all the time in the world and while you're waiting for the miracle girl, work on yourself - your attitude, your heart, your emotional state, take care of yourself and make yourself feel more attractive to all women. You'll know when you're successful at that because more opportunities will come your way - and when that happens, then the girl you have been focusing on right now may be one of them. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 08:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Clout 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just like men women also like a chase. Don't text her as much to get her mind wondering what happened, then I bet she'll text you to see if you're ok. Don't be so pushy. Perhaps she really was busy, or maybe she's just trying to play hard to get. However if once brother leaves and she's still acts like that then yes stop texting her for good.
2006-08-28 08:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is into you she would be happy to get a lot of texts. When my BF and I first started dated he texted me like 100 times a day and I loved it.
She is giving you mixed signals though. Try not to text her for a few days and she if she all of a sudden texts you. If she is interested she will.
My BF and I have been dating over a year and he still texts me at least 10 times a day. LOVE IT LOL..
2006-08-28 08:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try an actually call her and talk to her??? With text you cannot really hear the emotion in their voice. If she doesnt answer leave her a nice message and say flat out - If you are not intrested or have changed your mind about our date I would really appreciate you telling me yourself. Wish her well and take it from there. Dont keep trying to contact her - if she is rude enough to try to ignore you than she is not worth your time of day. She is showing her true colors and now you see her for the spineless person she is. All the best of luck to you. Be strong and dont continue to contact her without a response. But do tell her how her actions make you feel.
2006-08-28 08:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that her brother really did come for a visit. Maybe hes still there and they have alot of catching up to do. Just wait, don't text any more for a few days like 2or3 and see what happens.If she does not respond back by than . move on.
2006-08-28 08:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texting her. Let her wonder what you're doing or who you're texting since you quit texting her. Trust me, if she's interested, she'll respond. If she's not, then she won't.. Right now though, you gotta give her some space to think about you on her own without you blowing up her phone with texts everyday...
2006-08-28 08:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy getting texts from my guy. I think you should stop texting and start talking! Ask her face to face what you need to know so you won't be living with this doubt that's eating at you.
2006-08-28 09:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her as much as you say you do don't give up because she may be going through a lot of things right now and not be able to go out with you but don't stop texting her it shows that you still care. believe me i'm a girl an di know i would appreciate what you are doing! DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!
2006-08-28 08:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by lacy_gllsp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound desperate and there's nothing a woman hates more than a desperate man. Stop all communication with her and maybe even take up interest with someone else. Once she sees you have a life outside of texting her, she'll probably be more into you again. THEN, don't be so needy! Play it cool or you'll be single forever! :)
2006-08-28 08:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to everyone. She likes you as a friend but is not into dating you. You should just leave her alone unfortunately. You might have also come on a little strong and it scared her.
She keeps putting it off because in person she didn't want to say no to hurt your feelings. Give it some time and lay low and see what happens. You may just have to move on or she may come around, but continuing to bug her is not the answer. Make her contact you next. Good luck!
2006-08-28 08:16:33 · answer #11 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋