Just last december I got engaged and have stoped parting and hanging out with friends. Im starting to hate hanging out with my old buds becuase I constanly get accused of being whipped, that I have changed and its all about my girlfriend now. Really I just dont like parting as much, and yes I spend alot more time with my fian'ce, but what should I do about my friends? or is it I really am whipped and I should change my ways?
2006-08-28 08:07:56 · 35 answers · asked by EsYoDaddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO YOU ARE NOT WHIPPED YOU ARE JUST PREPARING YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE. YOU ARE SHOWING CONSIDERATION TO YOURSELF AND TO YOUR WOMAN. YOUR FRIENDS ARE JEALOUS LET ME GUESS THEY DONT HAVE A SPECIAL SOMEONE LIKE YOU DO TO OCCUPY THEIR TIME. DONT LET THEM GET UNDER YOUR SKIN THAT WAY. WHIPPED IS GOOD ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HER AND SHE IS GOING TO BE YOUR WIFE CONGRATS TO YOU AND HER . I WISH YOU THE BEST IN HAPINESS AND LOVE.
2006-08-28 08:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
**** your friends. You're getting married and you can't help but to be with your woman. You're about to take a huge step. Of course your lifestyle is going to change. You won't party as much cause you have other obligations in your life. You can still hang out with your friends and be with your woman. If they can't understand that you're in love and want to be with your woman from time to time, it's because they're jealous. Tell your friends to cut back on the whipped joke or just ignore it.
And to answer your question, no you're not whipped. In love yes, whipped no.
2006-08-28 08:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you are not really whipped. Just sometimes people get older and grow up. Maybe your friends have not reached that point in their lives yet and trying to make you feel bad because you have. What I would do is just go to happy hour a couple of times a month with your friends so they dont think that you are dissing them. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 08:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're allready a winner here. You've put her before yourself and your so called friends. Way to go. Keep it up. Dump your looser friends and hopefully you'll marry this great girl. Way to go. NO. You're not whipped but had a great reality check. Got your life and priorities in order and things are on the up and up. Those friends are just saying that cuz of jealousy and crap. Get some new friends man.
2006-08-28 08:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everybody has to grow up and change. Its a part of life. There is nothing wrong with you wanting to now spend your time with your girl. You've hung out with the boys your whole life....I can totally understand getting tired of partying. Your friends are just jealous. I see guys do that all the time. Next thing you know they get a gf and then you dont hear from them anymore. When they are single, guys try to mess up the relationships of their friends.
2006-08-28 08:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, but so what. They miss you, and are envious. Leaving your buds and getting a life is normal. It's part of growing up. They will probably go through this soon enough. Sometimes instead of a woman it's a carrier, or some sort of calling.
Don't change your ways unless you aren't ready.
2006-08-28 08:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course you're whipped or you wouldn't have gotten engaged! But as long as you Both are whipped a little, it's not so bad. You're friends tease you because they're probably jealous of you or terrified of being committed like you (or they hate your gf, lets assume that's not it for now).
Let them have their fun. You're going to get married...you're whipped, accept it. Just don't be that guy that ditches his friends for his girl, no one likes that guy.
2006-08-28 08:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by unprdctble_m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are your friends single? If the answer's yes, then they're probably jealous that your priorities have changed. You don't have to stop hanging out with them altogether, but why don't you suggest some different outings that will both allow you to keep your buddies and keep you out of trouble with your fiancee? If that doesn't work, then you probably should consider new friends. I mean, everyone has to grow up eventually.
2006-08-28 08:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's a FINE line between being 'whipped', and being 'in love' or whatever.
YOU have to draw that line, not your friends.
I don't know about you but I'd rather hang out and get some from a chick than to hang out (and get some - or not) with a bunch of dudes...
2006-08-28 08:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes, you are whipped. Just because you're whipped, it doesn't mean you can't hang out with your friends. Try to make some time to hang out, but not all the time. Once a week, try to get together to do something fun. But it doesn't mean, you can go every day.
2006-08-28 08:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
No your not
"whipped". You are growing up. Relationships require 100% / 100%. The more time you invest in a relationship the more you will get out of it.
Good for you, hope things work out.
2006-08-28 08:12:41 · answer #11 · answered by GillSev 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋