theres this guy who's like in his 40's who says he likes me and wants me to meet at his place sometime,he gave me his number and all,what should i do?! i'm only 24!
2006-08-28 08:02:53 · 26 answers · asked by MandaPandaXoX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF HE LIKES YOU HE WOULD TAKE YOU TO DINNER AND A MOVIE, NOT TO HIS PLACE. THE REAL QUESTION IS DO YOU LIKE HIM? IF NOT BE HONEST AND TELL HIM ( IN A KIND WAY OF COURSE) IF YOU DO LIKE HIM TELL HIM TO MEET YOU IN A PUBLIC PLACE (IF YOU TRUST HIM) AND YOU CAN TALK AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER. AGE IS ONLY A NUMBER MY MOM IS 11 YEARS OLDER THAN HER HUSBAND AND THERE PERFECT TOGETHER. I WOULDNT GO TO HIS PLACE SO SOON THOUGH MAKE HIM BUY YOU DINNER AND SEE IF HE'S INTRESTED IN YOU OR WHAT YOU CAN GIVE HIM! GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-28 08:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by bigmommanova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bar - the birthplace of tall tales and fantasies. Get rid of his phone number and don't go to anyone's house that you meet at a bar. I don't know anyone who is in a long-term healthy relationship with anyone they met at a bar. The one married couple I did know who met at a bar got divorced. I can't think of any good that would result from going to this man's home. Enjoy the company and the fun in the bar, but leave it there and go home (Is that a picture of you with your baby?) at the end of the night.
2006-08-28 08:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know him? If you don't want to know him any better, tell him that you are not interested. If you do want to know him better, spend time talking, in a public place, and getting to know him. Does anyone else in the bar know him, or anything about him? I wouldn't go to his house if you don't know him well. I get the feeling from you that you are not real interested in this guy. So, if not, keep your distance and tell him the same. Never put yourself in a situation where you are not in control. You would not be in control at his house. So don't go.
2006-08-28 08:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by amora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get rid of this guys number and ignore him the next time you see him, the fact he wants to meet at his place let's you know he's only after one thing, he's a creep so just steer clear of him.
2006-08-28 08:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he look? Some 40 year olds look every day of their age- others these days have been working out since Kingergarten, and benefit from a lot of nutritional knowledge that's become available while they were growing up.
2006-08-28 08:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it the law says that your not a minor after you turn 18 and your clearly older than 21! well the only advice I can give is find friends your age! and quit going around this guy!
2006-08-28 08:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met or spoken with this person before? I'm unsure as to what exactly his approach was, but if you feel you might be interested in getting to know more about him (you might feel flattered but not interested, and in that case, don't call), perhaps you can consider getting together in public places to start.
Take your time and be cautious. I personally wouldn't encourage you to go to his place if you know only little about him. It sounds like you're unsure about his proposal and I think it's important to listen to yourself. If he actually cares about getting to know you as a person and not only in another way, he will respect and understand this. If he doesn't, you'll be glad you didn't go.
Best of luck.
2006-08-28 08:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? If you're not interested then say no thanks. If you are interested in the guy suggest something you would like to do. (I'm assuming you don't want to meet him at his place for a little "Wham bam thank you mam.") If that's all he wants you probably should just move on.
2006-08-28 08:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to talk to him don't do it at his place. Find out a whole lot more about him before you go to his house.
2006-08-28 08:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the real 40 yr old virgin and he thinks he found his cure
2006-08-28 08:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by M Double 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋