my partner keeps his ex's phone number in his phone,because she ows him money, is he right by doing this?

Question

my partner split with his ex because he always loved me. she owes him a lot of money and he wants it back. he emails her and has kept her numbers in his phone. This has made me insecure. I have accused him of not moving on,

Answer 1

I have insecurities too, and my closest friends usually tell me to recognize if the feeling is based on fact, or fear. Mine are usually fear. Can you differentiate if he is telling the truth? Can you look at the fact that he is with you, not her? Would you keep a phone number of a debtor and try to retrieve the money?
However, if my insecurities are based on facts, I usually have to do something different.
I trust my BF enough to tell him when and why I feel insecure. Sometimes he will chuckle, he likes to know I value our relationship. Sometimes it is more serious, and he will reassure me verbally.
If I consider his actions, I recognize he is really into me, and I am usually wrong to harbor the insecure feelings.

Answer 2

I Think that you better read what you posted,,
the part that says,: MY PARTNER SPLIT WITH HIS EX BECAUSE HE ALWAYS LOVED ME..

If you believe that, then act like you do. He has every right to want the money back, and this is a perfectly good reason to keep the number in the phone,

No offense to you, but you better grow up, because the number is a number, in a phone? To even stress a little because of a number he has, puts you in the very unstable group.
Remember this, if he wants her, he would be with her, if he wants someone else he will go after them,
He (your partner) is with you,, that is what he wants, yet if you insist on nitpicking things like that, you are in for a sad life, and you will not recognize happiness when it is right there with you.

IF HE IS WITH YOU, SLEEPING WITH YOU, SHARING HIS VALUABLE LIFE, AND MOMENTS WITH YOU,,
THEN GUESS WHAT? =HE LOVES YOU.. IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT, THEN ENJOY IT,

Don't sweat the small stuff, and push the good stuff away at the same time,

There is one other solution, you might try,, If you have the amount of money she ows him THEN YOU PAY THE DEBT SO HE CAN DISPOSE OF THE PHONE NUMBER,,, OTHERWISE,, Let him handle his choices his way,

I wish you the best of luck and love,
i hope you take good care of it

Answer 3

certain--because if someone i respect changed into badly injured and the police or well being center were attempting to achieve me i'd not understand the large variety. Or my ideal chum's automobile must be damaged down on the fringe of the line and they had to borrow a telephone because they forgot to price theirs,and that i'd not understand the large variety. Or the neighbor I not frequently recognize must be calling to assert a persons'' attempting to break into my automobile, and that i'd not understand the large variety. lots of the most urgent calls you'll ever receive will come from unknown numbers!

Answer 4

In some "right or wrong" questions, there are no correct answers. If you really want to find out about whats going on between your man and his ex. here is some tips
tip1) register his wireless phone account online, so YOU get to see his call log and the length of each call.
tip 2) obtain his online banking password, so you know where, when, and how is he spending his money.
tip 3) have the confident in yourself.

Good luck

Answer 5

I think you are way overreacting! I have the numbers of most of my ex boyfriends.....some I have because we are still friends and others I have in there so I know to hit IGNORE when they call!!! relax and let it go. If you try to make him do these things and control him out of your jealousy and insecurity it will drive him away. This is a mistake that I see women make all the time. I see jealousy this way....if she can get him than I don't want him. a man who is not loyal to me has no value to me! If he was interested in her she wouldn't be the EX! hope that helped. Best wishes!!

Answer 6

Even if he's lying and he still has feelings, you have to accept that people get over relationships in many ways and over various periods of time. If you start giving him grief over this, nothing good will come of it.

A little advice, one of the most attractive qualities men find in women is confidence. You have to keep a lid on this and see how it works out. If he goes back to her, it won't be a shock, but if you drive him off with this insecurity, it'll only be your fault.

Answer 7

I think U should get over it, he knows her number by heart. He should listen to U if u tell him U would really rather not see her number in his phone. make up ur mind though because if he talks to her and doesn't let u know because he has to erase the call log them it will look like a lie. be careful what U ask for. Good Luck!

Answer 8

If someone owed me money I would surely keep their email and phone number too. your being very insecure

Answer 9

He has to keep the number. He isn't moving on if he can't contact her even if he wanted to, its not his choice then. Also he needs to know who it is, if she calls him.

Besides that if someone owed me money damn right I'd keep their number. I have ex's numbers on my phone from yrs ago, just in case they ring me, I need to know whether to hang up or not.

Don't pressure him. If he's gonna cheat on you, he will do it regardless of a particular number on his phone.

Answer 10

Well, he's never gonna get that money back. 7 years on and my ex still owes me £300. Oh, and he owes me five years of child support, so I've got no chance.

Tell him to either get the money, or to move on.