About 3 weeks ago my best friend revealed his true feelings for me and it is no secret to my self that I feel the same way.The problem is he has a girlfriend, its not like they been together for years they have just been together a couple of months. I am so confused because its like what do we do now? Where do we stand?. sometimes I want to be around him like a friend and other times I want to cuddle with him like a boyfreind. I am so confused and I am not a home wrecker. I need Advice. That is the situation which brings me to my question his birthday is comeing up and and I want to get him something special, a keepsake of some sort, somethig that he would see as thought behind the gift. Please nothing corny. I need help on both matters. Thanks
2006-08-28 07:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by el flo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think u and him should talk and c what does he want to do. does he want to leave his girl and start something with you or what. Now with the gift thing lets see......ummm... well it's the thought that counts. Do u have any memorable pics of the both of u together?? if so then u can pick a picture out and put it in a frame with a message on it. Or you can buy hi a chain or a ring with a message inscribed in it. well good luck with that. i hope everything works out...
2006-08-28 08:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lu-Lu - hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN. Run like the wind. He's a player and he's cheating with you on her. Don't think you want that on your conscience. Get away and get away fast. Tell him straight up I like you as a friend and that only. He's allready got a girl friend why does he want you? As far as the gift a nice card would be good. And make it personal.
2006-08-28 15:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUY HIM A SHOVEL AND PUT A BOW ON IT.
HIS FEELINGS HE HAS TOLD YOU ABOUT DON'T MEAN CRAP IF HE IS STILL WITH ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND.
HE DOESN'T REALIZE THAT HE IS DEMONSTRATING TO YOU HIS LACK OF INTEGRITY AND DISHONESTY. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN THINK OF GETTING INVOLVED?
MOVE ON AND LOOK FOR GUYS WHOS BEHAVIOR AND ACTIONS MATCH WHAT THEY SAY THEIR FEELINGS ARE.
OH, AND DON'T FORGET TO GIVE HIM THE SHOVEL....
2006-08-28 15:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get him a birthday present.
2006-08-28 15:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ooga Booga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋