inter-racial dating...?

Question

what are your experiences dating somebody from a different race? better? sucked? what did you date? what was the best and worse?

ok ok so far all i'm getting is crap but the lady with the italian hubby is running for best answer.... i am asking which race are you dating and if it is good or bad.. dont give that love is all you need mumbo jumbo crap ok kiddies? let's make this an interesting question and answer thingy!

Answer 1

I am actually dating someone from a different race. I am Hispanic and my BF is black-chinese (yeah i know) I think its better because it is a learning experience for both of us. I learned something different not only about him but people who are like him. People that you would work with or maybe go to school with.
I love it and i think its better sometimes. BUT the only negative thing is that you will attract a lot of attention. There are a lot of ignorant people out there...and they will stare or make remarks under there breath....but i could care less.

Answer 2

My husband is full Italian, I'm American. There are so many differences from skin color,to languages, to culture, style, opinion, ways of thinking. Sometimes its really tough, sure it would have been an easier road to go with another white american male, we sure sure do get stared at a lot. We definately ate talked about a lot, and many people don't necesarily agree, however when it comes to true love color,languages,and all of the above are non-existant when you look into their eyes. So for me LOVE is the best race, everyone else can go crawl under a rock!! :) Ps....the worst race.......posers. You are what you are, be authenic, be proud of who you are and the right person will come along.

Answer 3

Just watch the Maury Povich show where 1 guy has 6 kids with 3 different women and they're fighting for him.

Get used to drama, You date someone for their heart, not because you think the race is better. Stop watching MTV videos!

Answer 4

I've dated all nationalities, and its not race that attracts me. Being a male I'm a visual creature attracted to beauty. It might sound superficial but thats how I'm hardwired. I'm a medium complected black male, and there is nothing more sensuous than laying nude next to a color other than your own. The contrasts and curves are a highlight, to the raw taboo that it entails.
Also I love long haired vixens...weaves turn me off LMAO.
Creamy, tanned, or sultry exotic thighs drive me nuts.
And after awhile I get tired of hearin ebonics.
Plus interracial kids are always the most beautiful, and inherit multi cultures.

Answer 5

My latest boyfriend is a black man and I am a white woman. He is the first and only man I have dated interracially and for me personally, I enjoyed our diversity as well as he did. I wasn't actively seeking to date interracially, but him and I clicked well and had that *chemistry* thing going on. Unfortunately, with him being in PA and me in IA, certain things interfered with our long-distant long-term (1-yr) relationship and we are no longer together. I do admit I loved his skin tone and felt we complemented one another quite well. He will always remain special to me. I would date interracially again and most likely will soon!!

Hope this was kind of what you were looking for in an answer to your question!!

Have a great week and be safe!

~T~

Answer 6

I love all women, and dating outside the race is nothing different for me.....women are women, no matter the race.....but the best date I have had was with an Asian lady.....the worst date was with a white lady

Answer 7

I am a white girl, eighteen years old, Ive dated a few black men and i can honestly tell you this. the only man who has ever understood me was a black man. I date white guys as well ;black guys strike me as more open and expressive than white men, but I believe i am more compatible with a white guy b/c of the lifestyle. Not in a prejudiced way, but black and white people honestly live totally different lifestyles. there are little things that will trip up a interacial relationship.

If i dated and married a black guy, i could count on my family looking down on me and talking crap about me. but another thing, most black people i know name their children unusual names, unique names, and i dont want to name my child SomethingOutOfTheOrdinary. ive dealt with a difficult to prounounce last name all my life, why would i give my child a hard to pronounce first name? i can deal with Sara or Billy.

another thing, black women have never seemed to take to me too well. they dont like me. some of them do but it seems most black girls i run into or talk to do not like me. if you are a white girl and have that issue, dating a black guy you will only have to deal with the women in his family which id find a personal nightmare.

the one black guy i seriously dated is stalking me now and doesnt get it that im done talking to him. any guy of any race could react this way, but that was my experience with a black guy. it seems like black guys come up to me complementing my body, and white men look into my eyes more. im not prejudiced, im really not. this is how it is.

I know it comes off as stereotyped but these r my true-to-life experiences. and i would totally date a black guy again if he seemed okay but marrying a guy who isnt white like i am? you have to even more selective b/c diffferent races live differently.
My friend is dating a mexican guy and they live different from blacks and whites. ive dated a mexican guy before too. its so hard to say whether race shud be a factor when you date. there are tons of differnt cultures and way to live and i think people ought to find what suits them best. I dont want to have 10 children or name my kid with a unique name. i wont apologize for the way i am. other can live however they want, and i live the way i want to
nonjudgmentally.

Answer 8

I was raised to see the person, not the color so I never had any issue dating outside of my race. I dated asian, angelo, african american, hispanics, indian... I am hispanic and the only benefit to dating hispanics over any other race was simply having the same kind of upbringing~ family and cultural beliefs& values.

Answer 9

That is the best thing ever is mixed races. They have some of the most beautiful children I recommend it 100 percent.

Answer 10

always dated outside my race and loved it, I found that the women I have dated are so much more open minded, aware and emotionally stable. I was always treated like a king.