i am a junior in HS and have been asked to go to a dance with him before. Now I would like him to see me as more of a friend and ask me out. The problem is is that i dont want to make him ask me out, i want him to do it by himself. How do i get him to do that?
2006-08-28 07:40:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why cant you ask him out? he will probably say yes unless he is someone already.
2006-08-28 07:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by NaNuk_911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could suggest a couple of approaches, one more intellectual than the other: (1) talk with him. Tell him that you have always liked him as a friend but now you find yourself having deeper feelings for him. You will be taking a risk that he will say no, but what is life without risk? Alternatively, you could try (2) get him alone, tell him how hot you have always thought he was, take his hand and put it on your chest and plant a serious kiss on him. I know that suggestion is less intellectual and more like a re-run of the O.C., but some of us guys need a road map. Again you may risk rejection, but if it is what you really want you should go for it.
2006-08-28 07:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" a man do anything. You can manipulate him but... it doesn't always work and creates a bad habit. Ask him out if you want to date him. Its that simple.
2006-08-28 07:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
just go forward and tell him your feelings dear.
may be he is more shy than you are.
the worse that he can say is "no"... the world in which we are living is going very fast dear... dont waste your time, ask him before someone else do it before you do. dont be shy, just close your eyes and say it.
2006-08-28 07:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by aure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
onces man/boys get turned down by a woman/girl they cool off,you
need to restart his engine,get a pair a concert tickets ot football
tickets and ask him to go with you,but give him 2-3 days to make
up his mind,he will sleep on it and he will get hot
2006-08-28 07:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him really subtle hints like calling him every so often to see he's ok or physical contact like touching his hand or arm or smell really nice in his presence. That should alarm interest, if it doesn't he's gay!
2006-08-28 07:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want him to do it, why cant you just do it yourself. you take the action maybe he dont think that you like him or he is shy. so why dont you try to do it, cause if you wait around on him there honey you may never know
2006-08-28 07:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jon and Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing special, just be yourself, guys love a girl who is confident, and honest and are lovable. one thing not to do when you want to date him is to dress in uncomfortable clothes, slutty clothes. good luck
2006-08-28 07:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self if he like s you it will happen !! , flirt alot!!
2006-08-28 07:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋