Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a long time and we both think we are ready. I think that i might be a little young. what do u think. Does it really matter!? Im so confused!!!
2006-08-28 07:32:44 · 54 answers · asked by Orion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no youre not idiot
2006-08-28 07:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think you are way too young to be considering having sexual relations. Premarital sex is a sin. Having sex before you are married can lead to an unplanned pregnancy, and I don't think you're ready to be a father just yet. Also you could get Sexually Transmitted diseases. If you have sex now, you'll regret it later on. Stay in school and focus on your education. Also ask God for help by praying, and he'll help you. Respect yourself enough to wait until you're ready. I made the mistake of not waiting , and I regret now. If you need more advice on this issue or others, you can e-mail me at midnightwolf99_2000@yahoo.com.
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2006-08-28 07:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by midnightwolf99_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know some would find this old fashioned, but sex is used way to frequently in place of love. Waiting till marriage is the best thing you can do, but knowing how tough that might be and today's society, I would at the very least say 13 is way too young. You are not developed emotionally, physically, or financially. Dont't get yourself into something you cannot handle, not saying you are dumb, just at 13 you are not mature enough.
2006-08-28 07:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion, 13 is kind of young. You shouldn't feel any pressure to do anything that you don't think you are ready for. If you are going to do it make sure that you and your girlfriend really want this, because if you guys are happy the way things are you don;t really have to take that next step.
2006-08-28 07:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by NyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any doubts, I say wait. Please understand that no matter how careful you are there is always a possibility of getting pregnant or catching an STD. Make sure you are ready to handle any and all possible end results of your decision. Abstinance is the only absolute safeguard~ even with a condom & birth control there is a possibilty of pregnancy. Even if it is a small percent, its still possible. Personally I have had one friend get pregnant twice taking every procaution and I had another friend get pregnant her very first time having sex. In fact, birth control can actually enhance fertility in a small percentage of women with hormonal imbalances.
2006-08-28 07:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it's right 4 me 2 tell U what 2 do, because u'r still going 2 end up doing what what U want 2 do. But i suggest that u Waite. I had sex be for marriage, and i do wish i would have waited. And also don't trust in condoms they don't always work. At least not on me.
2006-08-28 07:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by hofergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 you do not need to worry about sex right now. Sex is a big step in a relationship, and you have to think about what you would do if something bad happened. Your only 13 the best thing to do is wait until marriage.
2006-08-28 07:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no 13 is way to young and trust me ur not ready even if u think u r. sex can change alot in ur relationship it might bring u closer or it might make u farther apart, make u feel uncomfortable with each other. u should def. wait, and not rush with something like this. Once u do it u cant go back, u cant turn back time.
2006-08-28 07:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT ready & YES you are too young!! If you guys do then I hope she gets pregnant so you realize how big of idiots you would've been for doing it. You're not even old enough to get a JOB to suport a baby if it happened....you didn't think about that stuff did you?! A couple girls I know had sex at 14 & one got preg the very first time...lucky for her she had a miscarriage at 4 months before her parents found out cause they would've KILLED her (not literally of course) & wouldn't have helped her at all. She would've been kicked out right then & there.....
2006-08-28 07:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are still very young. If you have any doubts then you should wait. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. You're relationship is between you two alone. There are plenty of other activities that you can do to satisfy each other until you are ready.
2006-08-28 07:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not have sex yet.
first you are too young.
second, do you know what can happen if you have sex? She can get pregnant. Do you think you can raise a baby at 13, can she? You are not ready for all that, and that is what sex is for...procreation.
Third, tell her that you aren't ready to raise a kid yet and that's why you don't want to have sex yet.
2006-08-28 07:37:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋