hi we have not been getting on to good lately but he has not been near me in weeks he bearly looks at me,when i go near him he tells me to p i s s off and that im pi***ing him off...
2006-08-28 07:26:22 · 20 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he is not cheating on me and no i dont think its my weight as he has had sex with me at this exact weight....
2006-08-28 07:35:45 · update #1
My fiance and I went through a dry spell too. Just let him have his space. In about 3 weeks from now get dressed up and look totally hot, flirt and be seductive. Don't let him have what he wants, if he gives up easily, you might need to get professional help, or call it quits. But if he keeps begging give in and have fun!
2006-08-28 07:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by sdarp1322 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience I'll tell you that there is a big possibility that he might have someone else. I went through this before and it was not easy but I stood by him hoping he would change. We were really young at the time and he found someone a few years older than him. Back than I had no self esteem and I thought it would be better to just stay with him cause I was afraid to start over. I was very lucky that he changed and it all happened because I did exactly what he told me to stay away from him so I thought OK jerk that is what you want that is what you'll get. So for weeks I would not aproach him and he started wondering what the heck was going on so he asked. I was afraid to pop the question but thought it was the best thing to do. We sat down and I asked him just like this "OK you have been acting very strange and aggresive lately so the only thing I can think is that you have someone else and I want the truth because if I find out another way it is going to turn ugly and if you come clean maybe we can try working things out see where we BOTH went wrong" so he confessed. In a way I blame myself because I was always accusing him of cheating when he really wasn't and I was very very possesive and jealous, I wanted to know exaclty where he was every second of each day. So look back and see what kind of relationship you guys have and be honest with yourself are you doing anything to push him away. People do change but hey it takes 2 to tango. If you want respect give respect. We have been happily married for 14 years now and boy has he changed.
GOOD LUCK and may god bless your relationship
2006-08-28 07:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by lasvegasgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want to be with you, so break up. Don't let some man treat you like this. I can't stand the thought of him loving that he treats you like this and you keep going back to try again. Stand your ground show him you can make it on your own. There are too many people looking for good honest, loving relationships to let this man treat you in this way.
2006-08-28 07:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man has did the same thing to me this pass two weeks and he toll me it is over after 6 years and now i have no money saved up and no places to go .so put some money to the side just in case that happen .good luck
2006-08-28 07:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by pat rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather then spend time here asking confront him,say to him,whats going on? if he dont change his ways thats it and walk away. some thing aint right here.may be his ill got some thing wrong and scared to tell u and face it,or has gone off you,either way you have a right to know.
2006-08-28 07:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you haven't realized it by now he's either tired of you or cheating on you. Just move on. There is no need in even talking to him.
2006-08-28 07:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ra_shunda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Ask him why he's being mean. If he doesn't listen and just says "Shut the f**k up! F**k off! Get away!" then just dump him.
2006-08-28 07:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it's obviously not worth the emotional strain and you should dump him. He's not worth it. There are men out there that will treat you better.
2006-08-28 07:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its over. Move on and stop wasting your time.
2006-08-28 07:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by tborelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on! He's probably lost interest in you, and ready to see other people (if he isn't already doing so).
2006-08-28 07:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by brownsugar_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋