Whats wrong with fornication?

Question

Proper sex ed, contraception ie the pill AND condoms maybe a COIL as well...

No teen pregnanices, No stds. Works a treat in amsterdamn where the teen pregnancy and std rate is tiny except in relgious immigrant communities which funny enough are the ones who exclude their kids from sex ed lessons.

Oh and married virgins can get AIDS just as easy from first aid on someone bleeding or stepping on say a sharp stone someone with AIDS trod on. Or how about you grabbed someone who did not see they were about to walk in fron tof a car and pricked yourself on a needle...

Plus all the other deseases you get by say the air... ie TB ... How comes caughing is not a sin?


So really wahts wrong with sex for affection and pleasure? It brings people together so more likly to pair up. The more practice you get the better you are and more confident at seduction and chattingup and maintaining realtionships so more likely to sort that long term special one...

So why do christians &

muslims hate it with many countiries having the death penalty by the sickest most perverted and angonisingly horrifying bloodthirstiy methods going ... stoning


for couples falling in love or people being affectionate


Sex good, love better relgion evil and death by stoning surely shows that lack of sexaul affection for pleasure turning you into a murderous perverted mass murderous psychopathic culture

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Likewise things like pole dancing...

So someone exercises all day and changes their clothes. Good way to be fit and healthy and feel sexy and earn £100/hour

Where do boys get such good jobs.?


Or gays what harm did they do anyone?

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What special about saving yourself for marriage to give to a partner?

How about yourself making the person so happy just being with you? ie best mate and snuggle partner?

And why would I not want to be pure?

Pure = missed out and wasted life.

little good in it

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quote chas
When you get married, would you rather your spouse had saved themselves for you


No I would rather they had no sex hang ups or repressions and liked touching and kissing all the time.

Someone repressed and uncomfortable with sex stuff would not be nice to be with

Answer 1

nothing is wrong with it

The Church has problems with any form of pleasurable activity

Answer 2

Nothing. Nothing at all is wrong with fornication if there is consent and understanding of the act from both or all sides.
If it is for money, then it is a professional service. It is a hard job eventually. Some insist it should be taxed, but that's a bit harsh if you can't get rebates ... if the law plays fair, then o.k.

Having sex for money is a great service. Sex for fun is a great pleasure. Sex out of matrimonial duty will never come close.

Answer 3

I can' t beleive in all this "keep yourself pure for the right person" stuff - have you any idea how BAD first time sex is? Awkward, painful, fumbly, embarassing? Who wants to have their first time with the "one special person" be like that?

I'm glad both me and my Fiancee got all the embarassing fumbly stuff out of the way with other people before we met, so that we could enjoy ourselves together!

But then I'm not a devout Christian.

Oh and just because you have sex before marriage doesn't mean you will catch an STD. Especially if you take precautions like using condoms.

And you can still catch an STD in marriage, particularly if your wife/husband has cheated on you.

Answer 4

I will be honest I am not Christian, and personally have no problem with peole who chose to do things responisbly. Its more of an old fashioned view when maragies were arranged and so forth that brought about it being a major no deal . But as for christains i really dont know as the bible states Tis better to spill your seed in the belly of a ( we shall use lady of the evening in place of the word) than to spill it on the ground. As for some of the cultures that prmote stoning they also have laws that say women are property and must obey thier owner so thats a bit odd if their owner tells them they must. Hmmm>>Bit odd to me.Live and let live;-)

Answer 5

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Answer 6

The proper place for sex is within a lifelong exclusive man-woman relationship, namely marriage.
The Bible makes this abundantly clear.
Just like using a car, if you don't follow the Maker's instructions then things are likely to go wrong. Aside from disease, there is the emotional damage of having multiple sexual partners, and the spiritual damage.
Plus there are practical issues like maybe ending up spoiling friendships, unexpected pregnancy, etc.

Don't know if you're married, but I'm guessing not. When you get married, would you rather your spouse had saved themselves for you, or would you rather they'd had lots of other sexual partners to compare you against!

I recall an analogy - When people have sexual relations it is like two bits of sellotape sticking together. You can get them apart, but when they stick again (another partner) it's never going to stick quite as well as the first time.

Answer 7

Its understandable where your coming from. Although as anyone would have their own thoughts, I believe its because fornication leads some people to alot of not just physical harm but emotional harm. It can be quite confusing for minors or those who just aren't ready to emotionally handle what they are getting themselves into. Anyone that becomes intimately involved may eventually have some sort of feelings and some usually gets hurt. As for the Bible, Its a state to remain pure and wait for the one true love in whom you wish to marry. At least that's how I understood it.

Answer 8

Judeo-Christian tradition has taught for thousands of years:
1. Single people should be celibate.
2. Married people should be faithful to each other (adultery is wrong).

The Catholic Church recognizes the power of sex when it teaches, "Sexuality affects all aspects of the human person in the unity of his body and soul."

Fornication, sex between an unmarried man and an unmarried woman, is contrary to their human dignity and the dignity of human sexuality.

Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person. A chaste person's body and spirit lives in unity and opposes any behavior that would impair that unity.

The purpose of sex is to bring a husband and wife closer and to create human life.

With love in Christ.

Answer 9

Nothing is wrong with sex. Isn't making love the absolute most intimate closeness that two people can experience? Why do the fundamentalists turn to stone at the mere mention of sex? Making love is for pleasure not for only procreation.

Answer 10

Well yes it is true that people can contract STD's that same way.

However none the less statistics in America say that 1 out of 2 people will contract a sexually transmitted disease in a lifetime, the could also include herpes or genital warts, etc.

What is wrong with sexual intercourse before marriage. Many things, it tends to be people who don't abstain from sex before marriage have later issues. In the act of fornicating you are giving out if you will a part of your heart. Something special, very special, once given out, it isn't all that special anymore

So when you become married someday through all that dating and fornicating what have you saved them that's so special now, sure you made that lifetime commitment, but what did you save just for them? By fornicating you tend to ruin the meaningfulness of sex, and when you do that you take out a big part of marriage.

Answer 11

Other than the fact that liberal sexuality has been the bane of mankind since long before recorded history. Illicit sex has been responsible for slavery, wars, and sickness to the level of death for millions. Today it is responsible for the AIDS epidemic. Oh it looks like fornication in a wonderful sexual activity....Jim